It sounds as if the only thing wrong with you is you suffer from sexual frustration from lack of intimacy. It’s a nature human behavior for women to be more picky about the men she see fit to have offspring with. I’ve found that women will subconsciously decide in the first 5 minutes she meets a man if she will ever have sex with him. Of course a man can win his way back, but it’s certainly an uphill battle.
For this reason many women have a friend with benefits (friends with benefits). Someone she can call on to satisfy her sexual needs and urges but not have to worry about relationships. The advantages of a friends with benefits are not always evident but a few are the lack of commitment, the satisfaction of the sex allowing you to clear your head, the ability to have sex without shame or embarrassment.
Of course the there are a few reasons to be Cautious to: pregnancy, STDs, and the most serious being attachment. Sex and orgasms will cause you to release Oxytocin, the bonding hormone. So keep that in mind.
As for being 26 and not having sex, you think you are abnormal because few women express their sexual exploits the way men do. Because of our society’s subjugation of female rights, society still frowns on a woman’s right to sexual expression. So many women feel as you do. It’s your choice to have sex or not. The real questions you should be asking are: do you want to have more sex? And is it right or wrong for you? 😊0 0 0 0
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If you aren't seeing anyone, there's nothing wrong with not having sex for a while.
0 0 0 0Just makes me feel like a freak. Like a broken little toy no one wants to play with 😥
Well if your any kinda looker it should be easy... go to bar dress skanky get laid... it’s not that easy for men... he’ll tinder will get you laid easy.
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- less partners is better.
- recent studies show that with modern people.
- the more former sexual partners they have. regardless of time spent together.
- the less likely they are to bond well. to a future long term partner.
- often ends up with one or both people cheating or breaking up with the other.
- happens for both males and females.
- https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20131125/how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic#2
- https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/releases/a-48-hour-sexual-afterglow-helps-to-bond-partners-over-time.html
- https://www.thetrumpet.com/7750-the-emotional-corrosion-of-casual-sex
- http://pauldavidphd.com/wp-content/uploads/Pair-Bonding.pdf
- https://www.medinstitute.org/articles/pair-bonding-and-the-brain/
0 0 0 0Just sounds to me like you're discerning when it cums to who you have sex with. Do you want to have sex? Were your previous lovers any good?
0 0 0 0One of them was but he was abusive as fuck. Made me feel like that was all i was good for then critised me when i tried. Knowing he was the only guy i had slept with. Maybe if i didn't loose it at 24 things might be different
Please. Stop beating yourself up for waiting. It happens when it happens. You have plenty of life left to make up whatever loss you seem to feel. I'm sorry he was abusive. What was it about sex with him that you enjoyed?
Just felt good for while. Until i began to see what he was like and then when touched me id feel sick. Not really sure what im into tbh
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1 29Of course not. I would conclude she is a woman who knows what she wants.
~JSmith0 0 0 0there's nothing wrong with you i think its kinda sexy im sure there are reasons for not having it same with me even tho i want to
0 0 0 0i haven't since December cuz of the virus
0 0 0 0IKR covids been a fucking cock-blocker
@VanillaSalt yah i chat a lot more now and that helps some
I have been working so much no time. Work finally got me some time off so I’m only working 5-6 days a week so I can finally try dating again... then covid hits.
What is wrong is that you didn't waited until marriage and/or stayed with the first guy.
https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyGirlIsNotASlut0 0 1 0Not necessarily anything, society is messed up so don't blame yourself. Are you pretty?
0 0 0 0Lol let’s see how longs it been for me... been single 3 years... it’s been about 3 1/2 years for me so no...
0 0 0 0still being a virgin, i mean i can't really say you're broken. I think you choose who you want to have sex with and you haven't turned into a sex crazed maniac like most girls which is good enough by me.
0 0 0 0Naahh.. thats fine if you aren't feeling horny so much.. but if you do feel horny, and yet not having sex.. then sweetheart.. you gotta enter the game.
0 0 0 0You know there are people that are more in yex then others. Just because you haven't slept with someone for a year doesn't mean there is smth wrong with you^^ See I didn't have sex for layt 2 years due to reasons. That happeny but is nothing to worry about
0 0 0 0No. Sex is not the measure of a person. It's not like starting your power generator every month to keep it running right.
0 0 0 0If you haven’t had someone you click with sexually in a year, that’s not a problem at all. You will organically find a sex partner when it’s time, and it will feel natural.
0 0 0 0Perfectly fine. You dont have to rack up large numbers, taking time to find someone significant is ok
0 0 0 0No, she is careful who she shares her body with...
0 0 0 0Nope. She just hasn't come across anyone she wants to have sex with since moving past virginity.
0 0 0 0Nothing wrong! There is sometimes a personal reason for this. If the reason is not meeting the right guy, keep waiting and love yourself✌🏻
0 0 0 0Nothing wrong at all. It is pretty normal actually.
0 0 0 0depends on how she looks
0 0 0 0No, I wouldn't think there was anything wrong with her, maybe she wants to save her next time with someone special.
0 0 0 0Nope!
0 0 0 0We’ve all had dry spots (pun intended)
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