Would you be offended?

Say you’re hitting it off with a girl and things are starting to get serious, you guys haven’t done anything sexual yet and she’s still a virgin, but it won’t be long until you do but she wants you to get tested before you do anything together to make sure you’re clean, would you be offended?
1 3

Superb Opinion

  • nope. but i would ask her to do the same. there are non sexual ways to get a few STDs and no matter how much you do to get to know each other, there are always things you do not know about the other or things that get missed. could be as simple as a blood transfusion when she was very young and may not know herself. (hiv, aids, hepatitus are some possible STDs that can be gotten nonsexually)

Most Helpful Guy

  • I have gotten tested several times. Will you also get tested for him?

    • Yes I would, but I’m still a virgin and I haven’t kissed or done anything sexual with a guy.

    • I understand, but you can get some STD's through oral-genital contact and some can be passed to a child at birth. If you expect your partner to trust you when you say you are a virgin, then he will expect you to trust him when he says he has only had one partner and she was previously a virgin and he hasn't had any symptoms.

    • Fair enough.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 30
  • Not if she'd get tested too.

  • No, I would not be offended at all because I am clean and that's a valid concern. However, if I have to get tested, she should too.

  • that's normal

  • No, she is being cautious.

  • Would not be at all offended, in fact I'd be very impressed by her very thoughtful, sensible approach to her first ever - and very special - sexual lovemaking experience

  • If you can show test results too, and ask politely, i think he would not be offended.. asking just as if you're worried, is cool, but if you asking like "there's no other option, test it or leave it, kinda attitude" that would offend him.

  • No, but you should probably both get tested.

  • If all a girl asked was for me to get tested for us to have sex, I see no reason to be offended.

  • It would make me feel confident that she was clean and worth the effort to demonstrate I am too.

  • Not at all. There were times in my life that I would keep a copy of my results in the glovebox. You know, just in case. 😉

  • No I wouldn't be offended. I'd be glad she's cautious.

  • No its only common sense. I mean you can get tested for free at most local planned parenthood or other clinics like that

  • Nope in fact I would want both if us to be tested

  • No she has every right to feel safe and with nowadays STI’s are everywhere. Luckily I give blood every few months and they test me and I’m always clean.

  • No, I'd actually be up for it and vice versa.

  • It is a good policy to wait to be both tested. This way each partner has no need to worry.

    This would apply to future partners also.

  • No I would be offended she’s just looking out for her own health

  • Nah id be ok with it. Not a bad idea to make sure.

  • lol well i am a virgin so yea but no it wouldn't offend me if she got one to

  • Only if I was a virgin.

  • Show More (10)