Well ok i get why you're thinking it might can scare him off a bit, but as it is about your pleasure and it's not sounding as you're willing to put yourself at risk, i think you should just feel free to tell him as being direct and honest about sexual preferences is something really important in my opinion.
Especially in relationships as there can't be to much communication and being able to talk about something like that should be benefitting for both of you and your relationship as well.
That being said, me personally haven't been into that choking kinda thing for a long time. Till i met a girl that was asking, well more like pleading for it while we were having sex and as i had no problem to do it for her, i did so. To be honest, at some point it started to scare me off because she wanted me to choke her stronger and stronger (she was already gasping), which i wasn't willing to do at some point because i really was scared of hearting her. So at that point i stopped and really didn't feel well anymore and also started thinking about the reason that made her wanting this (It came out that she went through a relationship with phsyical abuse she still was kinda emotionally involved in)
Even though this roughness scared me off i realized that just choking softly and gently while having moments of huge intensity and during the thrill of sex can be pretty nice for both parts. So i started to do it more often (accordingly to my partners) and i'm enjoying it since then, having to mention i'm really talking about soft choking and i never got into another situation someone asked me to do rough choking which i have absolutely no intense to do.
So yeah even tho' you're boyfriend is really gentle and haven't tried it yet, he might actually like it. And as you aren't interested in getting choked as hard as it potentially gets dangerous i'm sure he won't mind doing it for you 😊
Also the fact of him being that gentle also could be related to a lack of confidence and insecurity about what you possibly can enjoy, which speaking for myself was a reason for me being really gentle for a pretty long time.
No. It would be an instant turn-off unless it was just gentle and symbolic. It can also be quite dangerous.
I know you young women think "Oh, some oldster. what does he know." May I remind you that I was your age once and grew up during the sexual revolution of the sixties and seventies.
Trust me. I was not staying at home playing solitaire.
~JSmith
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For safety reasons, I won't choke a girl, but I will hold her firmly by the neck if she likes that - and it seems that a lot of women do! And my big ol' hands come in handy for things like this...
I'd find it extremely hot. How would you feel about being bound? Spanked?
I’m into most dominating things, with some exceptions of course lol
Do you enjoy erotic pain if you have a safe word?
I’m sure I would be. My boyfriend’s pretty gentle tho 😅
I love it but be smart about it do mot let jim do it straight on he has to do from the side straight on can hurt or kill u in a HEART beat
I wouldn't do it. It's too easy to go too far, and it isn't worth it, hurting her, or killing her, for me! Maybe she would break up, and so, problem solved!
I don't do things that hurt women, or anyone!
Lol I feel like most guys would either be too scared to grip too hard or would kill her by accident 😂
That’s what I’m worried about 😂😂
We all have our own preferences and desires.
Its sometimes difficult to express what you like when you are with someone new.
I have a few suggestions.
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I'd be concerned that things might get too intense and may go too far end up hurting, damaging, possibly killing the other person so now I would never go for it
For me it would be okay. On the other habd I think it could scare a guy out, but at least he should try it. I mean how would know that he doesn't like it?
Sure, as long as she was enjoying it!
Hmm no it wouldn't freak me out or anything I'd have no issues doing it to be honest but I wouldn't do anything more then having my hand around her throat with light pressure.
I don't think I'd be comfortable doing anything more then that. Especially since I sometimes don't realize my own strength /=.
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