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Why don’t most women cum during sex but men always do?

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  • Many had shared their views and I "sort of" agree. So I won't repeat.

    Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

    How about a religious reason? Its a curse from God that woman have birth pain, and on top of that, she desires her husband and be dominated by him.

    I interprete that as losing pleasure during intercourse too, so that she always want to have sex and hence suffered the sexual side, apart from childbearing.

Most Helpful Guy

  • That depends on the woman, as in how willing her body is to respond/cum.

    But, the reason I like to start on her.. is upon being satisfied, she (from my experience), will payback with interest!

    it might be both partners or either person who needs to learn, though most of us feel/felt sex is totally natural... It's like anything else you get what you put into it if you open your mind and decide you don't have all the answers there's books on it hell you can ask any questions you want on this site and some I will give you some kind of an opinion might not be worth anything but you know we all have them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because men are selfish. I love teaching girls that it doesn’t have to be that way. I take them and show them what it’s like to be the receiver of pleasure and just the giver. So many times I have taken women who have never really enjoyed sex and helped them achieve satisfaction so that they understand what their bodies are capable of. What I love most is that they always come back for more and each time I do something different so that they have a new and better experience. Any woman is welcome to ask me for help if you like. Just PM me. 😊

  • its the opposite with me hehe but i hear it a lot too and one of my friends i knew she ended her relationship because her boyfriend couldnt last more than 5 minutes and never made her orgasm they were together for 2 years
    i think many women need a little bit longer time to reach their orgasm and their men should make them relax and help them orgasm but it does not happen that often

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It is easy for a guy to have an orgasm. They just need to learn how to use their tongue more often to get the girl to orgasm.

  • haha men kind of have to, it happens every time semen shoots out, so it's sorta built in. most girls i've been with cum, not every time but usually. it's more subtle for them and needs more of the right kind of stimulation

  • Number one is because a lot of guys are selfish lovers.

    I never penetrate her vagina until she has had at least 2 or 3 orgasms from oral. Then penetrate her excited quivering pussy with my hard, throbbing dick.

    For women it also depends on the clit/clit hood position. If the lit hood ends at the vaginal opening she will c u much easier then those whose clit hood end higher then the vaginal opening.

  • Cause their with selfish lovers or a rare other reason.

    • I meant the men are selfish lovers

  • That is true. What else go you want to know?

    • Almost all female orgasms are clitoral. Most are tiny and are nowhere near the action. A guy who understands that knows what to do.

  • Because women often need more time and it’s even mental, while for men it’s most of all mechanical

  • It's nature. Male orgasm is necessary for procreation. Female orgasm is optional. So nature made it easier for men to have orgasms.

  • Not giving women enough stimulus to orgasm. They are just interested in there fun...

  • You’re with the wrong guy

  • It's a lower ultimate threshold and women cum in different ways

  • Because men are sometimes selfish and in a hurry.
    When I was married I could take my time and be sensual, kissing her neck, deep french kissing and get her to cum multiple times before I came.
    It takes practice, but if he cares enough you will cum during sex.

  • Because women have always been told they don't cum during sex (which is a lie), and most guys don't develop the skills to make her

  • Not my experience honestly. I focus on girls orgasming. Only way for me to get off is if they cum on my dick.

  • I have no idea

  • That's a good question, I wish I had an answer for you. I'm trying to figure that out myself.

  • Because most men are selfish lovers.

  • That's an easy one. It's because men take responsibility for their own pleasure and their own orgasms, and women do not.

    Most women sit back and expect the man to make them cum. But most guys can't make a woman cum without stimulating her clit, either with his tongue or his fingers. But he's still expected to do all the work. So why not take a little pressure off of him and stop expecting him to be responsible for both of your orgasms. Take some responsibility for your own pleasure and rub your clit with your fingers.

  • Because a woman doesn't need to cum to make a baby, but a man does

  • It's a lot easier for men to cum than it is for women to cum.

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