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Should I tell a girl I am with that I have a small penis?

So I am with a girl and we have a very good connection and we have a lot of fun together. We really get along together very well. Sometime inevitably , will become intimate... But I am small down there. Should I tell her?
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  • I think it would show lack of confidence to tell her and she'll end up feeling awkward.
    Honestly it isn't the size that matters. Its Its skills. Can you get a girl to climax with whatever you been given? Are you capable of getting a girl the Orgasm with your fingers and tongue?
    Are you open to bringing Sexual toys into the bedroom?
    I always say if a man is small down there so what! He needs to bring his A game in every other aspects.
    He needs to be romantic
    He needs to be reliable
    Faithful
    Honest
    Hardworking
    A gentleman open doors pull out chairs
    He needs to read up on Sexually gratifying a woman and be opened minded in the bedroom.

    The average person has sex 54 times a year. So what are we doing the rest of the 311 days?
    Make sure you are awesome
    And make sure you treat the girl like a goddess and your queen in and out the bedroom.

    This is coming from a girl who stayed with a man who was no thicker or longer than my thumb (2.5 - 3in) for 3 YEARS while he treated me well. He screwed up betrayed me and broke my heart. That's when I left him.

Most Helpful Guys

    • might be wise to bring up the topic somehow in a different manner. but not every girl you run into will want a guy who is above average or hung like a horse.
    • while it is true that size and shape of a guys dick. can effect his ability to pleasure a girl to some degree.
    • if your talking vaginal sex. the average woman's canal is 2-4 inch deep when not horny. but can expand or stretch to 5-8 inch deep when horny. however some can go more those are just the average numbers.
    • average width of a woman's vaginal canal is 1-2 inches wide. but it has the ability to stretch out more depending on her level of arousal. since it can expand to let out a baby after all.
    • the average woman's g-spot is only 1-3 inches deep inside her. so if a guy can hit that mark regularly. she should still feel a good amount of pleasure. might need a vibrating toy, use fingers or switch up positions to hit the g-spot. since it can be a difficult angle to range.
    • however good foreplay skills can tip the scale in his favor for sure. when it comes to pleasing a woman. since most girls tend to orgasm better from clit simulation.
    • ideally just talk with her and ask what she likes and dislikes. she might be unsure but willing to try something new.
    • most girls who like 9+ inch typically do anal or oral more then vaginal. however there are those rare few. who can take one that big vaginally. with little or no discomfort.

  • Don't say anything. If fid you're about ready to get down at some point tell her " i don't have any condoms, but if your mom has a thimble in her sewing kit i'm good to go". If she laughs you're probably going to be ok. But if she gives you weird look rhen you should probably fake a headache and just break up with her later
    Good luck man

Most Helpful Girl

  • You probably should because sometimes some girls might not be into it and you don’t want her to full on just stop you before sex if she sees in person for herself

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Dude, it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean. Emotionally mature women don't care - in my opinion - it's the whole package... no pun intended.

  • How small are you when erect?

    • Around 5 inches

    • Dude, you are only 1/4" smaller than the average Caucasian in Western society. You aren't small. You're normal.

    • "You're normal." I agree. That's so close to average that it's not worth even worrying about the difference. I say don't talk about it and be confident and most women will be fine with it. And remember that many women can't reach orgasm from penetration alone so if she can't, don't think it's because of your size. Just make sure you get her there some other way.

  • i would want to know before we get to the point of seeing it

  • Let her find out on her own and she can address it

  • Just own it and use what you have. I have been told MANY times by woman. They will take skill over size every time.

  • Well if your gonna get to the point were she will see it anyway better to just tell.

  • No, it would be better to let her find out if it gets to that poiny.

  • Well damn if it worries you that much you SHOULD tell her b4

    But if it doesn't then let it happen you see eachother naked

  • If you don't tell, she will see it when ready for sex.

  • Depends on what you think small is but girls not really wanting huge for sure

    • This is true. Many girls don’t like it too big sadly

  • You don't have to now, but she should know before you become intimate

  • I’d say no. But focus on giving her pleasure when in that stage of relationship.

  • She most likely already knows it's not going to break any size records

  • i would but i just hope she dont brake your heart for telling her... i am small also 5 when erect and i have been badly heart broken cuz of it... just use caution is all i can say

  • Only if you are married. Otherwise, nobody should see your penis.

  • Yes. But if you guys get into an argument , be ready for the “that’s why your dick is small” lol

  • No need

  • Five inches isn’t something to fret about. Asking her will show a lack of confidence and that will be much worse. Eat her good and then fuck her. If she doesn’t like it, well you got laid. Own that pussy.

  • I will be brutally honest with you. It's over, she will judge you, and she will probably go cold. Most people today in general are very shallow, and only interested in their pleasure. If you are worried about this, then you have not met a woman that makes you feel like you won't be judged... therefore on some level you know she is shallow.

  • Maybe ask her indirectly of her ideal penis size, if she says size doesn’t matter then go ahead and tell her, but if she mentions something bigger I suggest to find a partner who appreciates you for who you are physically and emotionally

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