Could you live with it if a guy didn’t go down on you In a relationship?

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My boyfriend doesn’t go down on me and it’s the only way I orgasm. He just won’t do it no matter what I do or if I shower? I keep asking myself is it normal to sacrifice certain sexual satisfactions? Some women I speak with say they wouldn’t be ok with it? I give him oral set everyday. I crave it more and more

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offendedsorbet Xper 6
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The only way to change things in a relationship is to talk about it with your partner. Tell him how you feel, ask him what you can do to make it more enjoyable for him. Boys don't know unless you tell them what's wrong
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- Asker
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  We have had the conversation several times... he said it’s because he’s been with other girls who were unclean in the past but... he sees me shower and wash 🧽 I told him I will always shower before if he wants.. he just won’t compromise. This is the man I want to marry... but no...
- offendedsorbet
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  Tell him how you feel about it then. Express how it upsets you

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ushagomez Master
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I don’t think that I could continue in a relationship without that shared pleasure.
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rachel776 Master
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i need it. stop blowing him and see what he does
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- kendylj
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  Agree with this
- Asker
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  I need it too 😫 I honestly have talked to him about it and he said he wouldn’t mind if I didn’t blow him.. he said it’s because he’s been with other girls who were unclean in the past but... he sees me shower and wash 🧽 I told him I will always shower before if he wants.. he just won’t compromise. This is the man I want to marry... but no...
- rachel776
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  yah that would be a dealbreaker for me, a life w a guy who wouldn't go down on me?
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- Asker
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  It feels a little difficult to ignore sometimes and then other days I just deal with it but it’s a huge part of my mood towards sex.
- rachel776
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  i mean there would be plenty of guys who would do that if u want to marry this guy and just get that on the side
- Asker
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  Minus the issue, he’s the perfect man. Very loyal and sweet. I could never hurt him like that, knowing what he’s been through with other woman. Can’t expect men to be loyal if not willing to do the same in my eyes, just my views. I do love him i just hate being frustrated and have him asking what’s wrong after and then this whole big conversation comes out
- rachel776
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  u should prolly get sex counseling before you get married, they could help you fix this