Would you be mad if you had a daughter that got pregnant at the age of 19?

[Anonymous]

[ghostqueen]

It would depend on the circumstances. Does she have a job? Does she plan on going to college? Does she know the father? Is she with the father? Does she have enough brain cells to pull off motherhood? These factors play a huge role in the way I'd feel when finding out.

[ohshee]

I would be about 500 things all at the same time. And I only say that because of where the world is headed there is nothing more in tnis world that i would love to have is a Grand child ,, but bringing a child in to the world right now i couldnt and wouldn't do it our world is headed for a melt down greed has tsken over our goverment has sold out in so many ways our goverment is out of control with everything they do soon they are going to try and make us take a shot that we don't know what will be in it what's it for covid19 for what ever 5G is doing to us or population control what ever the truth is going to be We won't know it for awhile ,, yes i would be pissed forbabout 10 min i would hug her tell herbi love her and support her and then i would say wheres your fuvpcking boyfriend and him and i no wait i take that back IM GOING TO HAVE A TALK he's GOING TO LISTEN AND HE BETTER HEAR EVERY WORD BECAUSE THERE WILL BE A TEST WHEN IM FINISHED LOL

[sammy1537]

A friend, got pregnant at 18. She was a freshman in college. Her boyfriend was a car mechanic's apprentice living with his parents. Her parents were super strict and would have disowned her! I helped her to get through the abortion. She graduated college, became a surgeon and she saves lives every day. Oh and she has three brilliant kids who skipped several grades.

Would I be mad is my daughter became pregnant. Yes but I would help her make the right choice.

[Yanifah]

Mad? No. 19 is an adult. I'd be worried about how have a child so young could impact her life and limit options. She'll have to grow up fast.

Getting pregnant is not a reason to get married. As long as they can co-parent, that's what matters.

P. S. My mother had me at 19, did get married, and this year my parents celebrated their 40th anniversary. Not everyone is a statistic! And no, I did not get pregnant as a teen.

[Hannahm67]

I would not be mad but I would be disappointed and wonder where I went wrong raising her. I would just hope that it was at least with a good guy that will stay and help raise the kid with her.

[RenWalker101]

Not really, as long as the boyfriend has a job and is willing to help her with expenses.
If you make a baby you raise it whether you're 19 or 26.

[OlderAndWiser]

I wouldn't be mad if she was married to the father of the child. Otherwise, I would be upset.

[Flower7]

19 isn't too bad. That's much better than getting pregnant in the younger teen years.

[Pasiton5]

No why does my responsibility to raise her with morals at 19 she ok is responsible for the decisions she make so if she gets pregnant what I'm going to hate her disown her that's ignorant she will always be my daughter I will love her as I always have test her as I always have just I'm a grand pa now cool it's her life to do with as she please at 19, I can only respect her choices long as it's not harming anyone or her self respect we need to use it more

[cajun40]

Thats situational, many variables to consider.
Is she happy with the guy?
Is the guy honest, is he good to her, will he be a good father and role model?
First thoughts that come to mind.

[Berethor]

Yea I believe so, I would not want my daughter to become a slut.

[Tamera952]

Mad? no. I'd be furious and march her ass to the abortion clinic.

[Andreapuss]

No, I'd pay for an abortion and put her in the pill

[zoeadams3]

I really can’t get mad, having been a pregnant teen myself.

[Bad_Man55]

Yes, of course

[ShortCircuit]

I wouldn't be upset at all if she was married to the guy. I'd still think it was a bit early, but at least it happened under the right circumstances.

If she was not married to the guy, I still wouldn't be "mad", but I would be extremely disappointed in her, and I would beat myself up for being a failure as a parent. Although I would still support her if she needed it, of course.

[SjE78]

no i wouldn't, as I would say it's her life, from 18 they are legally allowed to vote and decide their future, so whether they wanna get married or not is up to her and her boyfriend, or girlfriend, depending on what she's into... as long as they are happy and the kid is looked after and loved that is what matters

[slatyb]

No, I might be disappointed but that’s life. It would be her decision to continue the pregnancy. After that I have no idea how I would react since it didn’t happen.

[Kaneki05]

Nope i won't be mad but Hopefully she can pay and look after it and somehow keep a job and have a place to bring it up because if she thinking i will help with any of that no thanks.

[Miristheiss]

Living at home?
How long dating?
Is she gonna marry him?

[omegajosh]

Probably a little, but in then end I have to get over it, because she would need her father to support her in this situation.

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

Nah, grandkids... Considering I still don't have any regular kids it's probably the only way I could have a grandchild.

[Dargil]

Disappointed, sure.
I would strongly discourage abortion and see to it he does not evade maternal care and child support. A better alternative is marriage. No man should have sex with a girl he would not marry.

[angeliquedevereux2]

I would ask her if she wants to abort or keep, then support either way