How do I get over being slut shamed?

I was slut shamed by this guy after having sex with him. I feel like a disgusting whore. I’ve only had sex twice but I feel like shit. I want to die. I can’t stop thinking about it.
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Thank you guys! I’m going to read these comments everyday until I feel better about the situation.
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  • Why isn't he considered a man whore? I mean it takes two to tango, you both had sex and now he's going to call you a slut, but he's off the hook?

    It doesn't work that way and this isn't the 50s anymore.

    If he's going to trash you out to others because you slept with him, then in equal fashion, call his ass out and make sure your friends and every other girl out there knows he's a fk'n player who can't be trusted and he'll do the same thing to every other girl out there.

    He expects you to turn tail and hide in a corner, but He'll fk'n change his tune the moment the above is done and suddenly no girl will want to go near him and thus, his sex life dries up.

    And it'd be his own doing. He started this shit, you just ended it. Call it consequences for being a two faced dick.

    You and everyone else can have sex with whoever you want, as much as you damn well want. It's your sex life and nobody else's business. The moment someone exposes your personal business and tries to trash you out, the gloves are off. Make a goddamn example out of them.

    For the record, if the roles were reversed and I was talking to a guy, I'd be saying much the same thing. Exposing other people's personal sex lives to others without permission in order to make them feel like crap and ruin things is a childish and fk'd up thing to do.

    The dick needs a harsh lesson in consequence and if you don't step up now, he'll do it to someone else and you'll still be stuck feeling like crap as if this is somehow your fault.

    Your only fault is going near this asshole, we all make mistakes and learn from being around the wrong people... But nobody deserves this.

    Time for him to grow up. If he's going to spread shit around, then dish out his own medicine and make sure he suddenly has less girls talking to him.

    • Him slut shaming you will pass in short order, because it's just him saying that with no evidence... But you're using his own words and actions against him that others have witnessed. That will last far longer and take him a lot more time to fix before any other girl starts to trust him. Again, that's his own doing. You're just defending yourself as well as protecting other girls from his future bullshit. You come out on top.

    • Thank you for your response! I really appreciate it. I hope it does pass soon.

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  • Don't feel ashamed because he is just a loser jerk who was a mistake to get with so tell the world how he treated you afterwards and stop him getting another girl to bed to do it to afterwards tell everyone he has a babies dick and is useless in bed d what ever you want to make other girls reject him on all levels you have not done anything wrong or what everyone else does so please don't be ashamed of what you did if it is ever brought up or done again own it and turn it back on him by saying he was no good at sex was little and called out for mummy on his gravy stroke and anything else you want to or can think of l i ke he licked his cum clean after he blew or something thing disgusting like that or that he confessed he wanted to be fucked by two of his mates better if you know there name's but turn it back on him and hold your head high he is a scum bag and you deserve better

Most Helpful Girls

  • I say you go out and take a minimum of 10 cum loads deep in your sniz. Then go knock on that asshole's door and when he opens it, push him to the ground, pull down your panties and squat over his face. His instinct will be to eat your snatch but before he can get that tongue on your clit, let all that jizz gush out of your exhausted sniz and all over his stupid lips and inside his mouth. Then say, "You are goddamned right I am a slut! And guess what? I will fuck every dude I see EXCEPT for you, cuck boy!" That will shut him up. :)

    • You've already cum twice inside Girl!!

    • Run!!

    • You're an Idiot, welcome to the NYPD

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  • Well if he’s gonna slut shame you, you might as well slut shame him back. Takes two to tango

    • You're an Idiot " NYPD" Your Ass is ours

    • Literally

    • Seems you have some what of a drug problem

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  • Okay... You're not disgusting... I promise. Sounds like he has some serious issues... You are giving his words power over your heart. Please do not give him any more power.

    Once you decide that he is no longer worth any more of your time, you remove his power over you. Who cares what he thinks? You KNOW the truth... Don't let anyone ever dull your sparkle!

    • Thank you I’ll read this everyday until I feel better about the situation

    • Your response was my favorite

  • Women have sex for many reasons, seldom because they are just "slutty." Most women your age allow themselves to be with a man because they think it will lead to something more than that.

    Forgive yourself for choosing a man who is obviously brainless and search for one who will appreciate you.

    I wish you all the best in finding him.

    ~JSmith

  • Tell everyone how small his dick is or that he gave you crabs or something

    • Smart man! I’ll tell everyone he has a shrimp dick. I’d be embarrassed about the crabs. 😂 thanks!

    • General rule for life... if you can't ignore it then take control and own the message... e. g. some one says "oh you slept with blah blah" and you say "well if you could call it that, he lasted 2 minutes and couldn't tell if it was his little finger or his dick inside me" :) Good luck! ;)

  • That's why you should had waited until marriage, but you choose the slutty path.

    • Thanks

  • Are you a slut?
    If so some shame might come your way.

    • It is what it is LMFAO

    • Hey we have all walked through shame , I have anyway. WITH WOMEN I tend to be the first person in marriage OMG AGAIN

    • I am a PJ, You don't know what that is or means to you

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  • Why do you let it get to you? Why give him the power? Wear your experience with pride, if you show that it doesn't bother you.

    If women can do porn and be strippers daily, cramming and they can live with it, you can deal with the fact that this man, this insignificant childish man is making slut shaming you and the reason why is because he gets off acting like the bigger man when you can overcome it easily.

    And if you want you could expose him If you want, not for who he is but belittling him by what you noticed about him when he was naked, you could say he was shit in bed, take the power. Did you see anything on his body you could expose that he would be a shamed off like a hairy ass or small penis or something then spread it with the girls you know

  • Its obviously not true, so why do care what that douche bag says?

    • That's a wise idea. I wish you the best.

  • You've only had sex twice? You literally should not be giving these people any thoughts whatsoever. If they're slut shaming you then clearly something is wrong with them, not you.

  • Why the Fuck would he do that? What did he say to you?

  • Ignore him and look for a guy who won't treat you like shit.

  • Why did you do it?

  • you don't sound like a slut

  • I don't know, just get over it?
    Life is simple: actions have consequences.
    Certain people don't like girls, who sleep around too much. Or they just say that to be mean. Or to manipulate you.
    If you intent to do it, just disregard the opinions of those people. You can't be liked by everyone in the world, someone will call you mean names. Well, screw them.

  • Why, were you ever?

    • Oh I forgot to mention NYPD

    • You're fucked

  • Thats so disgusting for a man to make you feel especially after you've let him in like that. He should be honoured the piece of shit. Its one thing for a man to put their penis inside a woman but i would argue its even more intimate and a lot more of a surrender to let a man push his penis inside your body. Fuck this guy. We're all sexual beings and its natural for you to want and love sex. You are just gonna have to let it gp and block this guy out of your life because he is a disgusting piece of shit and obviously toxic. RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK! A tip for the future is to make sure you respect yourself and take into consideration what the perception of you will be after your actions for example. You are attracted to 4 guys and they are all on the same football team. If you hook up with all of them they are gonna talk about you and say how you get about with loads of men. Do you catch my drift? Hope this has helped

  • Maybe just stop thinking about it 🤔

    • Easier said than done

    • You had sex twice my goodness. There are women out there that have sex everyday with different guys but that idiot wants to slut shame you? How many times did he have sex?

  • He's a jerk. I can't tell you how to simply get over it, but he is completely in the wrong. The only thing to do if possible is to stay far away from him.

    • I couldn't agree wxrtith you more, just be fashionable about it where a mask and practice Social Distancing , LMFAO!! YOUR WAY TOO FUNNY!!!

  • Realize it's nothing but words, and they have no effect on you whatsoever. Especially coming from a guy like that. Why would ANYTHING that guy says have ANY effect on you, don't let him have that power

  • You should not let a small minded shallow person get to you, get over it.

  • Hey put the death ideas out of your head please.
    A lot of guys are arsehole like that, they get what they want then shame the girl.
    If you need to talk further send me a message baby?

    • Apparently your a glutton for punishment!

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