I am not enjoying sex with my partner anymore.. it feels like a boring routine?

What should I do? Is it ok to cheat once in a while?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe it's boring for her too? Sex does take two... So then, are you okay with her cheating too if she's bored 🤔 Instead of going right to the "cheat" if you really care about your partner.. . Why not work on the sex, there's lots of ways to make sex unboring and if you don't care enough to do that, then why are you even with your partner 🤔 There's NEVER a valid reason to lie to someone, break their trust in you, hurt them or break their heart just because YOU'RE SEXUALLY BORED...And cheating is usually the end of that relationship anyway, do why not do the decent thing and end it BEFORE...And just remember, karma can be a bitch sometimes...

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  • No, cheating once in a while is definitely not okay! You should just break up with her. That relationship seems very pointless.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's a symptom of a LTR-the answer is YES but take precautions to keep from getting caught-like having a one night stand in another town. Every so often when you can get away with it without risk it can keep you from a breakup due to boredom. Don't EVER let her know though

    • Of course this guy goes anonymous because he knows he's a piece of shit.

    • Deal with it. I went anon because of Hag-Trolls like you who throw shade at any opinion they dont agree with. People like you are predictable. Anything man do bad-women fo same thing good. Why should I provide you the ability to harass me around the internet? Bite me.

    • Well, I harassed you anyway. So deal with that.

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  • The problem is you were looking for novelty, not looking to love her. So now that the novelty has faded, you are ready to cheat. With this attitude, you will never find the right woman

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  • It is never okay to cheat but you can change things between you and your partner. Talk to them and get creative.
    ~JSmith

  • Maybe she senses your lack of commitment and she is already cheating on you! What do you think?

  • most guys cheat when that happens, better to just let her go

  • This is crazy but tbh all relationships get to a point like that. Sex really isn't everything. If you only wanted sex then I'm not sure why you're in a relationship to begin with.

  • It's not okay to cheat. Break up with her.

  • No, it's not okay. Ever. Just break up or figure out a way to make it better.

  • Never okay to cheat, but you can change it up. My girlfriend and I started to have sexcwhen she's on the phone to make it more exciting

  • Guess its common with guys so I don't know do what you need

    • If cheating is a need then maybe those people just shouldn't get in relationships or make promises they don't intend to keep.. That's not need, that's narcissism

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  • That's normal. The first flush doesn't last. How long have you'll been together?

  • Switch it up. Try facefucking her, try role-playing, try bondage, try anal