Going to it right away will ruin things. Start to initiate contact subtly. He will get the message. Begin to walk the bases. Pace yourself. Once you make him cum by handjob, you can stretch it out to establish your relationship. Do not EVER initiate a blowjob until he has given you cunni once without expecting a return. Then you are not a slut by offering or initiating one. At least reserve intercourse for official and exclusive. Giving yourself away easily labels you for him... and you.
If you are like most girls. . . as soon as you have sex with him, you will look at him differently. You will try to convince yourself that he is a great boyfriend and you will start thinking of him as a long term relationship. You will overlook warnings signs and red flags. And, yes, if you have sex on a second date, he may wonder if you always do this on a second date and, if so, if this makes him #37 on your list.
And many guys also have their feelings change as soon as a relationship becomes sexual. If you are not meant to be, breaking up a sexual relationship is always more difficult than if you have not yet become sexual.
If you don't already have a sex toy, I suggest that you get one and use it extensively before your next date. Waiting a few months may save you a more difficult breakup down the road.
I do have someone else to have sex with but since I’ve been dating this guy I don’t want him anymore. I just want this guy. do you think inviting him over he will just think sex?
Yes. Before a relationship becomes sexual, an invitation to your partner's home almost always is an invitation to have sex (unless there is some other special occasion, other people will be present, etc.)
Wait a little Longer. Let us See if he Thinks you Are this Chase and Challenge. xx
Thanks, Gag. xx
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