If a woman can't orgasm should you dump her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend always claimed she could orgasm when I go down on her but I used an orgasm-verification app and it showed that she's faking it. I don't know about the accuracy of the app but she admitted it and said "whatever". Apparently she's physically incapable of orgasm.

I'm both outraged and disgusted. I feel like our whole relationship is fake. She claims that it's not a big deal and relationships are more important than sex. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

It wouldn’t bother me as I primarily care about getting off, not her. Selfish I know but less pressure with her. Now I am also competitive so I would see it as a challenge. She may need more romantic connection to cum and she certainly needs to feel safe and secure. I would make it my mission to get her to cum. They can’t fake the wild bucking, not really as it is like convulsing and bucking and pausing and the hands don’t know where to go the neck strains and the thighs squeeze with their mouth gaping open. Some of the more mild orgasms are easier to fake but not that one.

It may take a couple of weeks of preparation, ended by a weekend at a cabin in the woods with no neighbors. You will need to up your oral game and teasing and denial. In the end, you might have to get a really good vibrator. If this doesn’t work, spend the next few months working in her and getting her comfortable with it all.

[Asker]

Maybe females aren't evolved to have orgasms and we should accept that fact of nature.

[Opinion Owner]

First, I think you are trolling but I am bored. The mans orgasms are obviously critical to procreation so it’s necessary. A females is more for bonding and to get her to screw more as it can lead to more procreation. But being the animals that we are, they are getting screwed anyway. Women in a great relationship cum easiest is what I have read.

[TemptedTerry]

Lmao! That's mental. My girl has 4-5 orgasms to my 1 when we have sex. And trust me, she ain't faking. Girls can fake a lot, but internal spasms give the game away!

[Opinion Owner]

@TemptedTerry and what’s mental about it.

[TemptedTerry]

I was directing my post at the asker. Regarding females are evolved to not have orgasms. I wish I could experience a female orgasm. They appear much more intense than ours :/

[Opinion Owner]

@TemptedTerry They do seem more intense. I think something close to what they experience would be a no hand, no touch organism for a guy. Or light touch. It would take a lot to get there and then the orgasm would be intense.

[Opinion Owner]

Orgasm.

[TemptedTerry]

Are you referring to a tantric orgasm? I have never tried that. I am fearful too. Many years ago with an ex, we used to play male orgasm denial. We would have sex every night, but I would only cum when she gave permission. Maybe like twice a month. Man alive, those orgasms were the best of my life. Though few and far between. I bring that up, because my ex introduced ruined orgasms. I don't know if you have experienced them, but they are awful. She strokes you at a nice pace until your orgasm approaches. Then at the tipping point, she removes her hand. I was usually restrained for this, and zero friction on your cock leaves you humping the air. Desperate for contact. Any contact. Your cum dribbles out instead of exploding. And you get no chemical release that comes with a regular orgasm. Excruciatingly frustrating. I endured them for her, she loved watching them. That was a different time in my life. I never want to experience them again. I fear a tantric orgasm would be similar :/

[Opinion Owner]

@TemptedTerry My SO has tried ruined orgasm with me although she never said anything. We would have sex in bed at night which at times was a nice good handjob. She would get me there and stop like she fell off to sleep. I couldn’t take it. I grabber her hand and squeezed and did it for her. That happened two or three times. I will read up on tantric sex. It seems involved. Perhaps we will try it.

[TemptedTerry]

lol, sneaky ruined orgasms. That's why I was usually cuffed to the headboard. If my hands were free, I know 100% I would have grabbed my cock, the need was to great. Especially if I hadn't cum for like 3 weeks... I am in a different world now. My wife is a sub. If anyone is begging to be allowed to cum these days, it ain't me ;) Good luck with tantric, hope it works!

[4eyes2mouths]

Sounds like it's her problem not yours. Why are you so upset? There are quite a lot of women who don't climax.

[Asker]

I read somewhere that there's no proof that even the majority of women are capable of that.

[4eyes2mouths]

You need to stop getting your information elsewhere and listen to your partner. Like she said sex isn't everything.

[Asker]

Yes but that's what all women have told me l, always. That sex isn't important and that men are disgusting for making a big deal about it. All women, without exception.

[4eyes2mouths]

So there shouldn't be any issues..

[Anonymous]

LMFAO Really! You used an app to verify if your girlfriend was having an orgasm?

[Asker]

It uses heartbeat

[Opinion Owner]

If you say so. Maybe you should dump her.

[LiamSawyer]

Maybe you should learn how to pleasure her. It takes communication to find out exactly what she likes and what turns her on. Not all women like exactly the same thing. In reality 9/10 times it's the guys fault and lack of understanding that a woman can't orgasm.

[sensible27]

Wth, this is funny lol, you serious?

[Asker]

Yes.