What should I do to help my girlfriend finish me off from her blowjobs?

Like she feels like not doing them as much as she used to, because she cannot finish me off. A part of the problem is that she has to stop, because her jaw starts to hurt about 30-45 seconds into it (She tells me that I am relatively large in girth).

What can I do to help her? Can you give me some tips? I feel so bad for her, because she likes doing it, and she said that she would do it to help me out, if she happened to be on her period.

In case you ask, I am circumcised.
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  • Some boilerplate on this. Caution. Word Wall ahead. Probably nothing new here. It's just tried and true.

    I consider myself a Blow Job Evangelist. It is the single most important thing you can do for a younger guy. Most girls do not know how to give an effective blowjob. They have to resort to trial and error partly because guys can't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and, as important, watched AV clips that ended in visible evidence of ejaculation. What struck me is how much alike they all were. So I laid out an effective routine. With no porn drama necessary, here's what always seems to work.

    *What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. Many girls have certain teases that are good for starting arousal. The goal is to get us hard and drooling precum, but not too near to orgasm, so the "tank" has time to fill. While there's always some on hand, arousal induces emergency production of semen so his volume will be bigger and his orgasm will be stronger. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. Five to ten minutes is good.

    *A blow job is not romantic, interactive sex, it is one-way sexual therapy. You make it all about him. It is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing, sucking and licking, slick, soft and smooth. The shaft wants vigorous hand stroking. Conversely, vigorous stroking overwhelms the head, and the shaft doesn't respond as well to a mouth as it does to a hand. So a good blowjob is suck and stroke. In the early stage, they are synchronized, with your hand just below your mouth, bobbing and stroking in unison. This will get him ready to cum. It should only take five minutes after foreplay, once you get the hang of it.

    *Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish. It is OK to level off to "edge" him for a short while, to make him last a little longer, so long as you don't lose ground. When he starts to buck and breathe deep, he is ready to cum. Go aggressive. Increase the intensity and speed of sucking and bobbing to where you can still sustain that for a few minutes and break away hand stroking to go as fast as you can with a moderate grip.

    *He wants to cum in your mouth while you suck and stroke. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing and straight-suck only. Keep hand stroking, but at a slower pace, to coax out the last squirts. If you have a gag reflex at ejaculation, curl your tongue up to deflect the stream. You should like doing this.

    *Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum. Also a little brief, occasional "suckling", like a baby on a pacifier, is a good tease while we drain. It will make him jump, but he will like it.

    *Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out, particularly true with braces.

    *Deep throating and "face fucking" are useless porn antics. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat ever could.

    *He may instinctively grab your head and try to drive deep when he cums. It's nothing personal. It's biology. You can avoid choking by gripping his penis firmly in front of your mouth so he can't drive it in too deeply.

    *Swallowing is up to you as it gives no pleasure but may give him an ego boost. I actually like her to spit the load into her palm so we see how we did, like this.

    What should I do to help my girlfriend finish me off from her blowjobs?

    *There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job, where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious. Developing this skill can help cement your relationship and make it less likely he will cheat. A skilled blowjob is not slutty and don't act that way. A blowjob is "girl power". One more thing. This Meme is funny but absolutely true.

    What should I do to help my girlfriend finish me off from her blowjobs?

Most Helpful Guy

  • The fact that her jaw hurts should be your first clue. Her mouth is made for better things, like telling you she loves you.

    It is better if you have her use her body as it is much better adapted to this purpose. She will probably also prefer this because many women enjoy penetration even after they have orgasmed and they are gratified by feeling a man come inside of them.

    If the idea of ejaculating into her mouth really turns you on and she does not mind, make love, wait until you begin to climax and then quickly adjust so she can put her mouth on you.

    ~JSmith

Most Helpful Girl

  • have her suck the tip and give you mostly a wet handjob all the way up and down you'll cum really fast. have her squeeze your balls also

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  • Have her start with a handjob and get you real close to an orgasm then finish you off when you are close. Have her just focus on the last 1-2 inches. She does not have to deep throat like in porn. I hope you return the favor to her?

  • if you masturbate and have her lick, tease and suck at the same time it's a great experience

  • She is just giving you excuses. I assume you go down on her daily? If you are giving her oral, she should be learning how to give you oral and making an effort. Even if she claims to like it, many girls don’t actually always like it but they will do it because you do it to them.

  • Have her do some things besides putting your whole cock in her mouth... lick, kiss, suck the head or shaft. That way her jaw won't hurt while you build up.

  • Nobody can make you cum that quickly

  • Your at Best a disgusting individual

  • Get a different one

  • Maybe have her just use her hands until you’re close and finish with her mouth

  • Suck it with her? If you are able to do autofellatio there is nothing hotter than sharing your own dick with a girl. It won't be as much work for her, you'll cum a lot faster, and you can share the load. Win-win-win.

  • Funny isn't? A woman can talk nonstop with her friends for 30 minutes, but 30 seconds into a blowjob and her jaw can get tired. If she can't even suck dick for 30 seconds then she ain't even trying to humor you