Is there a way to stop being gay?

[Chester_Cheeto]

I started watching normal porn in the 5th grade after searching up boobs on my mom's phone. It was a whole new world I was opened to. I eventually found out what gay furry porn was. It was weird at first but I started liking it. That was when I stuck a finger in my butt for the first time. It was poopy and smelly so I stopped for like two years. In the 6th grade, a dude friend of mine and I was just playing. I told him I bet he wouldn't sit on my lap, and he did. It turned me on more than anything in my whole life; even to this day. In the 8th grade, I stuck a banana in my butt for the first time. It hurt like a bi**h but I started liking it. In 10th grade, people started assuming I was gay and they were jokingly calling me 'inside out penis' and 'man vag***'. I took a moment to think about it. I feel ashamed now. I stopped watching porn about two or three weeks ago. I don't expect to just turn straight in an instant. When I daydream about sex with a girl, it's good and all. But when I daydream about sticking my d**k in one of my best guy friends, I get an erection so f***ing hard, I start pre-cumming. As in now, or two or three weeks ago, I was able to touch my throat with a banana without gagging. That's a terrible sign of me truly becoming homosexual. I don't think I see boys as relationship partners though. They're my homeboys till the end. I think gay is more a fetish for me. There's nothing wrong with being gay. I just see myself as an adult with a beautiful wife and past dating experiences with girls. I don't want to be gay. Even if it's normal.

[SuzuBrooke]

You could just be bisexual. Have you ever had a girl on your lap before lol? I hate it when people use the terms gay when they haven't tried both. But I don't know whether it's a choice or not. I was asexual once upon a time now I'm straight. Just depends who the person is. Maybe you find some part of the opposite sex to feel better. But if you can't change then don't try to force it. You said you wanted to but if your not happy with it your just not happy.

[laurieluvsit]

The two key words to anything you do in life is "Want to"

Anything you "Want to" do bad enough, you can do.

If you think you can't do it, it is only because you don't "Want to", or you don't want to bad enough.

There may be a part of you that enjoys being who you are now but society is telling you that you shouldn't and that is making you feel bad.

[Kenwoodman]

Try having sex with the girls. And if you like it, stick to it.
To have anal play done on you, you don't need a guy for it. Girls fingers, strapons and toys will do.

[Chester_Cheeto]

I wish getting a girl to do what that easy without social anxiety

[Kenwoodman]

Just get some really good looking prostitute

[Chester_Cheeto]

The point is that I don't have sex right now. I need answers on how to quit homosexual acts

[Kenwoodman]

I have told you. Try heterosexual act and see how it goes.

[NorthwestRider]

If you are gay, you are gay
If you are bi, you are bi
If you are straight, you are straight

[ragequeen]

Embrace the change. It`s a lot better to accept who you are than hide it or try to change. You will never be happy otherwise. Try out your new preferences! You might like it pretty fast!

[Chester_Cheeto]

No thank you. I would expect people to tell me to embrace this change, but I feel often disappointed in it. I don't care if it's natural. I don't want this transformation to continue.

[ragequeen]

Well there is nothing you can do about it. So either be miserable trying to change and ignore it or try to make the best of it.

[neilsmart]

You can't choose your sexuality - fact! Be honest with yourself and embrace your true sexuality because if you don't you will eventually regret it. Don't listen to society trying to tell you it's wrong.

[slatyb]

Troll much?

[Chester_Cheeto]

No. This is legit.

[Gwenhwyfar]

You’re probably bi. But you like what you like. Would you like to follow me and we can discuss this privately?

[Rexos]

Sexuality is not something you choose and you can't change it, if you're attracted to both men and women you're bisexual, and you'll always be. I assume you're not pansexual because there's clearly a difference between your attraction to men and your attraction to women.
Not wanting to be attracted to guys is probably a sign that you don't live in a very accepting community, or at least you're scared from the negative response you might receive if you open up about it.