Is this cheating?

Anonymous

Can two people who are sexually not satisfied in their relationships fulfill their fantasies with each other. I recently had sex with a colleague of mine. We both are in long distance relationships. We had sex once when we were drunk but we do it regularly now. Although we don't feel for each other and we have decided to do it only till we are away from our partners, is this justified.

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+1 y

But one question, would you consider having sex with a fleshlight cheating too?

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ghostqueen Influencer
+1 y
If you're not in an open relationship and you're fucking other people, you're a cheater. There is no justification. If you're so unsatisfied then leave your partner and move on with your life.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Agree. But sex and love are different. Why do we need to always link them
- ghostqueen
  +1 y
  Depending on the nature of your relationship they most certainly are linked. The fact that you're searching for justication on your actions to strangers online proves love and sex are linked in this case. If your partner was okay with you fucking other people, this conversation would've never started.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Partially true. There are times when I think it might be wrong. But the fact that we both are doing it regularly and it's purely sexual. I don't feel i need to tell her this because it's just sexual. I feel what we both are doing is just giving each other sex.

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Marilynjuana Yoda
+1 y
If you do this behind your partner’s back then I have no words except for - You’re an absolute disgrace. An ape has more brain than you.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I don't think you need to be abusive. Your opinion is taken though
- Marilynjuana
  +1 y
  I love it when cheaters call me “abusive”. Cheating tore my life down, I still hurt on a daily basis. THAT is abuse. You are actively stabbing someone’s back with no shame. You ARE a disgrace. And a hypocrite.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I feel you. I would feel the same if my partner cheated on me emotionally. For me, emotionally getting attached to another person is cheating but sex is just an activity. Again, I've mentioned it that we don't feel for each other. We are just indulging in a physical activity
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- Marilynjuana
  +1 y
  My ex didn’t feel much for the low class whore he cheated on me either. So what. The fact that you cannot even comprehend what you are doing to someone else is sick. Keep going, I’m sure the karma train is headed in your direction. All losers get their lesson, I am sure you are no different. Toodles!
- Asker
  +1 y
  Marilyn I know you've been hurt. And I feel you. And I am not cheating on her emotionally. I don't want to convince you, but I think we both are providing each other the physical happiness. Nothing else
- Marilynjuana
  +1 y
  Dear Xpart, my pain is my pain. What I am telling you is that you are hurting someone whom you promised to protect. You can’t see it, that alone drives me sick. I am not sure how you’re able to look into the mirror but you sound damn fine with what you see, so what is the point of this Q? You have convinced yourself that you deserve to have your cake and eat it too, like any other cheater. So go ahead, Einstein.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Marilyn, I am no different. I am here because i feel guilty sometimes. Why I am not stopping is because it's relieving me of sexual frustration
- Marilynjuana
  +1 y
  Please let your girlfriend find a decent man, stay single and fuck around all you want.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Thanks
- Asker
  +1 y
  Just one thing. Would you consider having sex with a fleshlight cheating too?
- Marilynjuana
  +1 y
  No. That’s masturbation.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Both are sex relievers
- Marilynjuana
  +1 y
  One is a toy, the other one has a pulse. If you want to justify exploiting yourself to another woman, please have that conversation with somebody else. It’s sad. I’m not in the mood for pitying people.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Thanks for your time