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Can being addicted to porn make you lose interest in your partner physically?

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  • If you are a guy, masturbating a lot will cause a drop in libido. It happened to me with an ex. It got to the point where she forced me to choose between masturbating or her. It was NOT that I started to see her unsexy. Far from it. I just found porn easy. I worked 12 hours a day, and I wanted release at night. Sex done well takes time. I mean, I went down on her for a couple of orgasms first, then the intercourse, in which I wasn't happy until she had screamed in pleasure at least twice from my cock, before I was ready to cum. It took time and effort. Masturbating was done in under 10 minutes.

    Still, I got into a rut of masturbating much more than having actual sex with my girl. So she forced me to stop. And I did for the rest of our relationship. We went from sex like once a week, to almost every day at least. And we increased our weekends away in which all we would do is book a hotel room, and I would spend most of the time between her legs.

    Getting him to stop will be a shit storm though. And risky. I almost left her over it. She wasn't going to stop masturbating, but expected me too. Though, as she had a valid point that her masturbating wasn't effecting the sex life, but mine was, I decided in the end to roll with it. And I didn't regret it.

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  • Depending on the viewer's (sexual) maturity. But since most who watched are inexperienced with sex, they will very likely be affected.

    In fact, many were so convinced of the "reality" of porn that they expect their girlfriend to look, act and behave like what they saw in porn. (Which is very unreasonable because in front of the camera, the porn actresses had thick expensive makeover, had scripted moves and a story line that help it sells.)

    I read a number of complains by girls here about their boyfriend having issues which I suspect were related to porn addiction.

    But for the (sexually) matured guys, they know the difference and as much as they won't drive like Fast and Furious, they won't expect their girls to be the same.

    All in all, porn do have effects on the physical side as to how a guy view the physical side of his girlfriend, because every guy wants a sexy pretty girlfriend. But reality is never so.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • One way or another it'll mess ur sex live.
    A. He gets horny all the time and starts expecting what he sees in porn from you.
    B. YOU get horny all the time or want a bigger dick or start expecting things from him that u see in porn.
    C. He or You get bored because the sex isn't good enough like in porn
    D. Because of the habit of masturbation he/you will tend to search for your own satisfaction and ignore his/hers.

    Those are the ones that i mentioned off the top of my head.

  • I think porn screws with your head

  • No...

    • I mean it’s not hard to believe that considering if a person becomes so addicted to porn they might start to hope their partner looks like the actors or actresses in the porno or hope for their partner To do those things. Their expectations will rise and if you you don’t meet them, they’ll lose physical interest. That’s how I see it.

    • I can see your point. For me it gives me ideas to try with my girlfriend. I maybe fortunate but when girlfriend is home she usually likes watching with me. As she is in Canada working we have our own porn session on Zoom.

  • possibly

  • Yes and it's known to "desensitize" people to an extent because people might end up with unrealistic expectations from porn.

  • some people do, some people don't

  • I have a porn addiction and I still get an erection everytime i see her and we live together so I see her a lot

  • How much porn? And how old are you?

    • I’m not addicted but a friend of mines believes her boyfriend is addicted to porn, at first she thought he was losing interest in her physically until she put the pieces together but initially it may not have been because he was no longer attracted to her but the more he continues to be addicted and not fix it eventually he might lose interest in her physically. They’re both 23.

    • Would you help watch her have sex?

  • Yeah, it can usually just make them think of them sexually rather as just a person

    • Well I get that but I meant will their expectations of looks turn into them wanting their partner to look like the porn stars they’re seeing and looking at almost everyday which will cause them to no longer find their partner attractive because they don’t look like what they’re addicted to.

    • I mean no their expectations won't have them wanting their partner to look like porn stars but rather they will just lose romantic attraction overall, since he'll just think about sex 24/7 and maybe yeah they won't find their partner attractive cause they don't look like what they're addicted to

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