Girls, does anyone else struggle with being on top during sex? Any tips?

[Anonymous]

I really want to impress my guy in bed. I know he loves it when I’m on top, but I absolutely hate it. I don’t think I’m fat, but I have a really big butt, and often times I feel like I’m hurting him. I tend to ride him while standing and squatting, but I feel like the weight of me coming back down hurts him, and sometimes he slips out and if I’m not careful I end up hurting his penis. I can’t really ride him on my knees without putting a pillow under his pelvis. It’s like he has to raise his pelvis or else I can’t really reach him. I don’t know if that’s normal or if I’m just weird or doing something wrong. Ultimately I just want to be more confident being on top. I’m always scared that I’m too heavy, or that I’ll hurt him, or that I’m not doing it right, or it doesn’t feel good.

[cloud9vortex1234]

Lean Forward while on top and have him do the thrusting.

[TheCuriousDude]

It’s normal for him to slip out

[In_Trance]

If you're hurting him, he'll tell you.