One night stands, are a lifetime of consequences worth at best, a moment’s pleasure?

[xENIGMAx]

STD’s, the burden of raising and supporting a child alone or just putting your life on pause for eighteen years.

[LandoCalrisiano]

How is this necessarily connected to each other?
Just because you're having ONS it doesn't mean you have to be irresponsible about it.
Also something that in the beginning might was considered to be a One Night Stand also can get something else if you realize that your opponent is a beautiful human being. So why shouldn't you just enjoy it and take it as the experience that it actually is?
You'll never know what it's gonna be in the end and same goes for people you're dating with the intense of getting into a relationship (same things can happen under these circumstances)

So why should you deny yourself enjoying life and making the best out of it whatever it potentially means to yourself?
I mean you don't have to do it obviously but trying to create this negative stigma of ONS is just ridicouless and without any sense!

Even tho' i don't mind having a ONS i don't intentionally go for it as a ONS as i prefer to spend my time with people that are live-enhancing and so it is about the people i prefer to have sex with.

But like i said before, you'll never know what will come out in the end so who cares if you got to know an awesome human being due to something that at this point might just was going to be or "considered" to be a ONS.
There is no sense about thinking any further before so why you should deny yourself further options afterwards.
If you enjoyed your time with each other enough to be willing to spend more time together then go for it, if not then it was just a ONS and nobody got harmed and in best case you've had an awesome night and experience! As long as you act responsible!

[Anonymous]

Desperation and protection, we live and we learn, just gotta make choices and hope they are smart. Everything is ok in moderation and everyone’s situation is different, To me, sex has to have meaning and I’ve never had a real one night stand because of many reasons but I wouldn’t go for it without connection and protection anyway, kinda off topic I know but this is a hard thing to respond to based upon how I read it

[Marilynjuana]

One word - condoms.

[MrHopper]

This ^

[xENIGMAx]

Anything man made is never one hundred percent guaranteed, ask those women stuck now with a baby and boo boo the fool. 😆

[xENIGMAx]

Break, bust and that’s your asssss! 😱

[Marilynjuana]

@xenigmax 98% protection vs 0% protection ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[xENIGMAx]

Not factual, look at the evidence. But thanks and be safe.

[Marilynjuana]

@xenigmax I'd also hope most women are smart enough to use pills etc instead of leaving it up to the guy.

[MrHopper]

given all the best luck in the world its only something like a 30% chance a woman will conceive... and the 98% is based on idiots who can't put them on right or them splitting, used safely they are safe

[xENIGMAx]

I’d hope people are smart enough in general, there are women that look to get pregnant for various reasons.

[Marilynjuana]

@xenigmax I have to say, most of those women's stench can be picked up from a mile away lol. It's quite clear when somebody is 2 grapes short of a fruit salad, and if you knowingly stick your thing into crazy, you've totally earned your rollercoaster :'). Of course there are exceptions and that's gross. But it's rather rare.

[xENIGMAx]

And that goes to my initial question for those dumb asses out there. Was the burn or whatever they contracted, worth that moment of pleasure and common sense lasting. 🤣👉 😩 ✋😷

[MrHopper]

So you asked a question that you already had decided you knew the answer too...

[Marilynjuana]

IF it happens that you somehow end up being the unlucky one then it obviously is not worth it.

[Astarlessnightsky]

You could wear a condom to prevent all of these.

[Jersey2]

Yeah, but... hormones. Mother Nature tricks us.

[xENIGMAx]

So it’s worth it, allowing yourself to be tricked? Hmm? 🤔

[Jersey2]

I didn’t say it was worth it... in the heat of the moment, there is no return. I have been there and there have been issues arising from it. I just haven’t been consistently strong enough to avoid it. Every woman I have been with I have busted loads bareback. It try to pull out but it is very difficult. I am past that now as I am married.

[scooogy]

People could name their children after what went wrong when they "just wanted some fun".

[Anonymous]

Condoms dude, condoms... use stronger ones if you are really worried!