Why don't you just follow his lead and do as he has done? You said that he makes you feel special. So you already have a playbook, created by him.
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Use his name, say it to him, so that he knows you are emotionally present and know who you are with, you're not imagining or fantasizing about anyone else.
Be nice to him. Spoil him. Preferable throughout the day, leading up to it.
Do moves on him and then ask him if he likes it, if it feels good to him. Being open to feedback (as long as it doesn't come off as incredibly insecure, and needing constant affirmation), will show that you are adaptable and open to feedback.
You know all the normal things work you know dinner Teddy massage or just when you're making out just basically tell him to keep his hands out of the mix and start rubbing him and whisper in his ear things you like about him things you'd like to do tell him a fantasy that's nothing more than a fantasy possibly that you would never want to do but for the sake of the task at hand shall we say... Playing with him and kissing him and making sure you don't bring him too far along too fast and at some point make love to his cock or telling how bad you want him and what you want him to do to you... As in all things it depends on your target and what their interests are but pretty much paying attention and telling someone how you feel works both ways
Show you're willing to learn and please him and that will absolutely be enough. Watch porn together, see what he likes, see what he wants you to do/try that they're doing. I generally don't want to watch porn alone, but with a partner it's a great barometer for trying new stuff in bed.
Have him show you a video he likes and see if you can recreate it for him.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i think there are videos about this where they show you everything, but just go in pretending he's doing nothing and you're doing everything, so when he doesn't expect it, you start kissing him and touching him and taking his clothes off, things like that
Sounds like you two have a nice thing going.
I have some suggestions, but maybe we should talk about it somewhere else where others can't see
You want to please him, that's 90% of being good at sex. Just talk to him. "Take control" is pretty vague. Does he just imagine you on top or what specifically? The male erection is pretty fickle, what he imagines and what actually works for him may be two different things so don't blame yourself if you try something and it doesn't work.
Communicate and ask him what turns him on the most, and stop thinking your bad in bed because that does nothing for your self confidence. Give him random blow jobs, in bed and elsewhere.
Make him feel like he's the only man left on Earth
I think it’s good that you’re happy
I cannot say, are you two affectionate enough?
Have you tried different sex positions?
Let him finish wherever he wants. Then play with his cum afterwards.
Lick it, rub it over yourself, swallow it, finger yourself with it.
If he's anything like me, he'll absolutely love that.
wdym you want help? Are you asking to have a threesome?
Ask him what his fantasies are.
Be subservient in bed.
Kneel before him and give him head.
(I know this is politically-incorrect advice in this day of women's lib, but all good sex is...)
Just let him lie down and give him a nude body-to-body massage.
You can get on top of him like he did for you. Ride him cowgirl and tell him you love him. You can talk dirty to him too when you're doing it. Talking and communicating your love and desire will make it special for him. If you're on birth control, you can tell him how much you want his cum and ride him through his orgasm in your vagina.
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