Why do (some) guys do not want to wait but also slut -shame any girl for not waiting?

I seriously do not understand why guys pressure women to have sex as soon as possible but also shame on her just because she want to wait?
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I personally stay away from such guys and i know that there are men who are not like that
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The question is about hypocritical male cunts-not about men. For me these creatures are not even man
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  • Guys want sex because well... sex is enjoyable. Beyond that, it takes more effort to please a woman in bed. Building up sexual experience is ideal for any guy because women are going to want men that know what they are doing past a certain age.

    The same isn't the case in reverse. It's ridiculously easy to please a man in bed, so men don't particularly care about sexual experience in women, although there can be bonuses when it comes to adventureness in bed, etc. It also just takes no skill to get laid as a woman. There's nothing impressive about a woman that just opens her legs all the time. Potentially increased chances of STDs/kids/crazy exes, etc. is way less appealing than a girl that has had one or two long term relationships in her life.

    So men basically put women into two categories. Women they can build up experience with sexually and have fun with when younger and less sexually active women they can try to build a relationship around.

    • To be honest, these men should except someone like them. If you are sexually experienced then get a sexually experienced woman

    • I personally donz want a man who waste his youth and his worth.

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  • Because some guys are just desperate losers. They need to (finally) have sex to fix their broken ego's they hate the fact that it is women who eventually get to chose their partners and in the unlikely case they actually got laid they need to distract from their abysmal performance (and the fact that she will not have them ever again) by shaming her.
    Good news is: Real men do not care about loser's talk.

    On the part of her not wanting to wait I must add though that I hate it if I have to hit the sheets the same day I met her. On the other hand I also won't say 'nay' just because she appears in a hurry... I certainly won't "shame" her - its just that sex is usually so much better when people have had some time to get to know each other... It is just simply annoying if a potentially good date ends in a fast-food ONS only because people did not take their time.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Those are not the guys you want to date. There are plenty of better men out there; you should find one of them.

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  • Those guys are hypocrites that's why

  • cos those type of guys are dicks and players, and honestly dont deserve a woman if that's how they treat them

    • I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new.
    • 1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship.
    • 2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days.
    • 3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean.
    • 4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy.
    • if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time.
  • That is an interesting question though it is to some degree true though just the butts shame a woman or even tell anyone that they had sex with them though guys tend to want to brag or some BS... It's very immature of them to say anything regardless of whether they don't want to wait or not it's your body...

  • It goes multiple ways. Just women make it embarrassing for a guy to even admit he’s a virgin. Not everyone is sex driven.

  • It's the guys you go for. I personally try to get to know the girl first and i wouldn't want a girl who's easy.

  • people smh

  • Well first off if you're legal and you choose to lose your v card at a young age that's fine it's your choice.

    My problem is the slutty behavior and hooking up with multiple guys. When you look like a slut and behave like a slut well... You're a slut.

    I don't think there's too many guys out there that wants to wait until marriage. It's just like buying a car you want to at least test drive it before you make a long term commitment.

    • Your logic is like comparing men with second hand dildos. Y

    • You wanna explain that?

    • I am saying that men who had sex easily are second hand used dildos by your logic

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  • That a pretty easy way to find toxic people STAY AWAY

  • they want sex as much as they can get it but then don't want a relationship with a girl who would do that. there must be something biological about it but i don't know what

  • It's all part of the game. We just want to fuck. It's nothing personal.

  • Makes them feel better...

    • Hypocritical, they want sex but when girls do they start calling them names...

  • Because guys want to have sex and they want a virgin.

    • That does not even make sense

  • Definitely stay away from those guys

  • I do try to wait for as long as i can when i am trying to get with someone, but depending on there lvl of how attractive they are. It can be extremely difficult to not so much

  • The difference between a bitch and a slut is a slut fucks everyone a bitch fucks everyone but you

  • I don't but she will be seen as more of a friend thing if nothing happens for a bit

  • Its called hypocrisy

  • Girls and guys brain is working different about sexually..

  • When a woman is pressured to have sex, she should simply refuse and dumpt that guy! Pressure does not work, patience (= being a gentlemen) does.

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