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I suck at sex and my perfectionism make me hate myself and not want to even bother trying. What do I do?

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Due to me still being fairly inexperienced it's obvious that i am going to suck at sex (No-one is born good at it, unlike most guys i actually realise that i suck at it). However because i am a huge perfectionist this doesn't sit well with me at all, unlike other skills i sucked at initially (guitar and dancing) i can't just drill it over and over till i become decent, for one thing i'm sure no-one outside of porn wants to be fucked every day for the sole intend of practise and skill refinement

I hate the fact that i suck at it, but i don't want to bother to try cos i know i suck at it. It's a catch 22 i suck due to little practise but don't want to practise cos i know i suck. I don't know what to do, i have to be the experienced one in the relationship (my girlfriend is still inexperienced). It's my job to be good and to know how to please a girl and to be a stud. Yes i am aware that i make it sound like i take fun and enjoyment out of it; well that's just how i learn. There is time for fun and enjoyment when i'm good at it, otherwise it's just a distraction

What do i do?
I suck at sex and my perfectionism make me hate myself and not want to even bother trying. What do I do?
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