For those men who watch porn on the daily: if you’re married and not having intercourse with your wife, are you cheating on her?

Porn activates your mind in a way that you think about sex, you’re excited about sex, no?
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I’m not asking if watching porn is cheating. I’m asking whether or not he’s cheating with other women because he’s not having sex with his wife, and OBVIOUSLY sex is on his mind if he’s watching porn.
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  • Well I think the very first thing we should get right out of the way is I have never denied my wife , my significant other, or any of my girlfriends when they ask for affection or sex. There are rumors that there are men who actually do this. This is based on everyone's experience , as seen in every high school , the best girl always stay with the shittiest boyfriends.

    Now, with that said , I truly believe that men are not cheating on their wives by watching porn videos. If this was the case , every time a woman it starts getting ticklish below the belly button when they look at a hot delivery man , their favorite male actor in a movie , or anyone else when this happens, would also be considered cheating.

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  • Only time I've been like this was towards the end of my first marriage. She was onto her third or fourth boyfriend. I could have walked round the house naked she wouldn't have noticed. We hadn't slept in same bed for months. Even when I did she was tired or not feeling well try to talk to her she wanted to go to sleep.
    I finally realised when I came home early why she was tired , there she was , I saw her through the bars on the landing, shagging her friend. .
    I went out slammed the door and got in car and had drive and called into cafe...

    • I’m sorry.

    • That's why I find solace in watching Lesbian porn. I don't like the other stuff. So I can fantasies with the girls. It was only by chance a friend died and met the second wife, she was so different. Only thing she loved watching the lesbian porn as well...

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  • Not a bit.

  • Not cheating, but it is definitely a sign that his marriage/relationship is not functioning correctly at this moment. Lack of intimacy will probably turn him to porn etc short-term, but long-term it could lead to either cheating or end of relationship.

    Might be time to look at the toot cause for lack of sex.

  • Damn your just dumb you got a wife but prefer porn dumb dumb dumb

  • He might be cheating on her, as it's usually a bad sigh if a man never have sex with his wife, though it can also be a extreme a addition to porn, where he prefer porn over sex in real life.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager

  • It's not cheating, but it is pretty selfish of him to pleasure himself and not sharing the pleasure with her.

  • It is not cheating but certainly denial sex to wife which is otherwise her right and natural desire.

  • I don't think it is if you choose sex over porn.

  • Never thought of that but a married man watching porn and not having sex with his wife is like he’s having an affair I’m single if I had a woman I wouldn’t touch porn

    • Okay

    • I wonder if it was turned the other way maybe the wife was watching porn and not having sex

    • You can come up with your own scenario in your own question. But thanks for staying on topic..

  • I also get excited when I see cake, but I don't think I'm cheating when I eat cake. To me, cheating requires two people. A person can't cheat alone. Therefore, porn is not cheating because only one person is involved.

    • No, but if someone’s addicted to porn and not having sex with his wife, where is he releasing that built of sexual tension at? Simply masterbating?

    • If we're saying that he stayed home and looked at porn, then yes. Simply masturbating. Because there is no second person involved. If your husband is cheating on you by jerking off to porn, then you're cheating on your husband when a co-worker jacks off to your facebook pictures and you know they do. I promise you they do.

    • In response to your update: No. It's possible to just masturbate. Porn has no link to cheating. That isn't to say he doesn't cheat, just that his watching porn and masturbating doesn't mean he's sneaking off to meet other women. Those two things aren't connected in any way.

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