Of course, you can't. That's what makes the past interesting to know about someone.
Are you expecting her to tell you :"Just so you know, I used to have sex with hell lot of persons before. Are we good?" lol
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You asking for an STD
@iambae Don't ask doesn't mean not getting tested first by both parties, something I insist on.
You're very sexist 🙃
And you are a slut, why you asking those questions if you have problem hearing the truth?
Problem is:I'm not. But I guess you are 😉.
friends with benefits is pretty promiscuous. People aren't supposed to remain exclusive...
I was in an exclusive "friends with benefits" for over a year. Neither of us could sustain a "dating" relationship."People aren't supposed to remain exclusive..."Speak for yourself.
I guess you're speaking for yourself lol
Don't we all?
You did in the title question alone.
friends with benefits relationships aren't about exclusivity by definition. Can be or not...
I am, thanks. Every mature friends with benefits I have seen, including mine, was exclusive. What you describe is a "booty call", casual sex. A friends with benefits is neither.
Depends on what you expect, I think.
And it is covered when the union is formed. Yes.
I've heard about people having several friends with benefits so...
They really aren't friends. They just have meaningless casual sex.
You can have several friends. Friendship isn't about exclusivity.
A friends with benefits is a voluntary relationship where partners agree on the rules. I would not be anyone's stable and I would want to have one myself. I can be exclusive. You can be as promiscuous as you want to be. But you set rules and stay with them.
You don't learn with ONS and casual experiences in general more than in a long term relationship...
Yeah. Really. Girls who have fucked a lot are usually better in bed and will only commit if that part is right for them as well. They simply fool around less and I very much appreciate! I am 36 and I got no time to mess around!
EDIT: That does not mean I like sex on 1st date ofc. If she does not have the time for at least a 2nd date to get to know me, we can as well let it be.
I don't think having sex with many partners makes you better but... To each his own...
Trust me, she should have some experience. Five partners may be ok as a lower limit, but more will still be better. And from what I have heard it is similar with men.
If that's what you believe 🙃
"Believe" as in "church"? Certainly not. It is simply judgement based on 20+ years of experience.
Not my experience 🙃
You would treat her like a prostitute?
She's already committed the acts of a whore might as well get paid for it.
What's your number of sexual partners?
The question is what's your body county
Mine is zero. I'm not ashamed about it 😉.
How many partners did you have?
Some people hide it...
not from me... and if they will straight up lie to my face then fuck them I hate them
How do you know for sure? What are the "signs"?
Why would I tell you, sounds like you are just gunna use the knowledge to be dishonest with people
I'm not promiscuous so no.
I can usually tell by the way they act around men and how they act when sexual topics are brought up. It's not 100% accurate but the more I talk to em the better I can tell. Give me a 10 minute conversation with a girl and I can be 90% sure if she's slept with more than a few guys or not
What do you ask? Are there any specific clues you look for?
I just use my intuition. I mainly observe how they act around me and other guys though, like how often they bring up sexual topics and how they talk about em, how they react to sexual topics being brought up around em, just intuitive stuff like how their expression is when looking at me or other guys, I mean to be fair most girls I meet they are such obvious sluts it's not hard to tell. With some girls maybe it could be harder to tell, but yeah I live on the west coast so it's all sluts out here
What about you?
What about me?
You're not promiscuous at all, right?
No, not at all.
Are you a virgin?
To the Asker. I hate when women say this cause it shows how much they don't know.Every peace of literature and historical text a virgin is a woman.
@iambae In your sexist mind 🙃
Yeah cause I wrote all the books and scrolls 1000s of years ago. Okay show me any text, book, writings, religious book as, that say a virgin is a man. But you cannot do it cause it doesn't exist silly rabbit.
If only women can be virgins what the heck do you call a guy who hasn't had sex yet?
That's just stupid and sexist... Not logic here.
Why an open relationship?
so we could both be promiscuous
What if she wasn't?
but your question said she is
That's why you want an open relationship?
I would want one anway
Why are you OK with it?
it was before me and none of my business, and i've done it too
You've had many partners in the past?
well several if you count sex and blowjobs and handjobs
I see. I've noticed promiscuous people tend to be more ok with their SO being promiscuous as well than non promiscuous ones.
yeah that makes sense
Im just that way!
Is that a fetish?
Yes it is
You're into having your partners telling you about their sexual encounters?
because a female who has no dignity or standards is garbage. If she wants to date a guy who’s banged every girl on the planet... that’s fine, but if she wants a guy who’s got quality and standards then she should have quality and standards as well.
Do I have dignity and standards? Yes... I refused to date trash my entire dating life. I have only been with 3 partners... one for 2 years, another for just over 2, and then my wife of almost 10 years has only had one partner before me. Which is part of the reason I married her. The other is that she is stunning.
Yes. It is.Way to many females act like whores throughout their younger days and the. just want to settle with a “good man” later in life. They don’t deserve that.
So do many men though.
Men don’t act like whores. Men don’t dress in almost nothing to get attention. Men don’t get to pick and choice who with and when they have sex.The few who can are considered slime to the test of us... it’s only females who think they are worth anything.
Oh no... Many men are the biggest sluts I've ever met.
You know trash. It’s likely the people you surround yourself with.
Absolutely not. I've trashed these guys obviously. You should do the same with trashy women in your life.
I believe I stated I have. Which is why I didn’t settle for anything less than perfect.
You wouldn't ask or anything?
No i would only enjoy the sex