Why do I barely get horny anymore? Is this a natural change? Anyone else share similar experiences?

[Jack9949]

I used to be hypersexual just a year or so ago. I used to have erections all the fucking time for hours on end, several times per day.

Starting around senior year all that changed.

It’s like I’m starting to think with my brain more than my dick.

I now have to force myself to get horny by watching porn. And I do that cuz ejaculation lowers prostate cancer risk.

[modelUN242]

Honestly, I feel the same way, I see sex as disgusting and pointless. Why bother having it if porn makes it seem so cheap and short-term. We need to ban porn tbh and even places like Tik Tok and Instagram have "porn" that little kids can access. Back then, women had modestly and covered up and only allowed their husbands to see their bodies which made it more exciting. And porn doesn't have any benefits, I mean seriously, before porn, men were having lots of sex?

This website is good to fight porn addiction and find meaningful relationships.
https://fightthenewdrug.org/

[Jack9949]

Im not obsessed with it tho

[modelUN242]

Is this like a subconscious thing? Like do you feel like you're not attracted to modern girls anymore because of their behaviour? People are always saying that guys are visual but they're not stupid.

[Jack9949]

I watch it only out of health concerns. I could stop tommorow if I wanted to

[Jack9949]

Its unhealthy to not ejaculate weekly

[modelUN242]

@jack9949 I don't believe that. I think directing your energy towards something productive and more physical is better. But masturbation is not a good thing.

[Jack9949]

I thought it was tho

[Jack9949]

And I do have a job where I’m working 4 days a week. Lol

[EyesOfGod]

I know if i dont tug it after awhile ill get anxious and such.

[Jack9949]

@EyesOfGod fair enough lol

[Lizzzzz288283]

Watching too much porn causes desensitization for men and women. Aka if you watch too much porn it’ll be harder for you to actually get horny outside of porn. Porn really messes up people’s sexual lives

[Jack9949]

Well I’m not sexually active so its better for me to manage myself that way

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Yeah, me too. I only watch porn to reduce prostate cancer risk. LOL

Are you taking any new medicines? Are you working out really heavily? I went through a period where I was lifting and running so much I used up much of my testosterone. All I needed was to cut back a little and it returned

[Jack9949]

Im on anxiety meds and I work all the time.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Have you looked up the side effects of those specific meds? It could be that. You're still very young so its not likely something medical

[Jack9949]

My sex drive went away before the medication

[SuccessfulHornDog]

ohhh. you could talk to a dr and they could do tests on hormone levels

[Jack9949]

What would they do? Stick a rod up my dick?

[SuccessfulHornDog]

No they would check your blood test for sex hormones to make sure that they're in normal ranges. If they find that they're not then they will stick a rod in your dick

[Jack9949]

... uhm

[DSimus]

Stop watching porn.

You're not jerking off to save your life here. It does lower prostate cancer risk but once a week or two is still sufficient.

Quit watching porn. Go outside. Change your diet if need be (fast food, sugary foods, junk food, etc all lower your libido)

[Jack9949]

I didn’t say I was feeling tired constantly. Just reduced sex drive.

[DSimus]

I never said you were feeling tired. Lower libido is a lower sex drive. You're cranking it too much, idiot.

[Jack9949]

Oh ok

[startingfitness]

bro i think you should look into nofap. i think it will help with this a lot

[EyesOfGod]

Basically the same for me its harder to get hard lol