Whats going on with me and this dad I baby sit for?

[Anonymous]

I've been baby sitting for a couple family's in my street for a few years now. The familys are lovely and i love baby sitting too its so much fun. But recently I've started becoming more interested in something else rather than the children im caring for and im starting to realise how bad it really is.

Everything was normal with this one dad who i baby sit with till his wife walked out on him. He needed my help more often and we became extremely close. One day i was helping him get his daughters Birthday present out the attic with him whilst she was sleeping. I ended up tripping up on to ladder slightly and he caught me. We were only wearing are PJs so i was a little exposed and i think in that moment he got a little aroused as he tried to kiss me but pulled back quickly and pretended it never happened.

He is really hot and intelligent and i think his wife is a fool for walking out on him and there beautiful children. I started wearing less around his house and i caught him looking a few times.

One night he went to the pub whilst i baby sat. I had it all planned of how i was gonna seduce him. I waited till he came home and sat on the top of his stairs naked just him his shirt. He looked me up and down and told me to stop being silly and pushed me away. At first i felt really bad about what id done and ashamed of myself and went back sleep on the sofa.

The next morning i was woken up by him and we got talking about the night before and he said he shouldn. shouldn't have lead me on and that he really likes me too but knows its wrong. I gave him a hug and said sorry and he kissed me and put his hands in between my legs and starting to rub. We got a bit carried away and i started to take his top off but then hid children started coming down the stairs so we had to stop.

Then i went into the kitchen to make everyone breakfast and he closed the door and started kissing me again. After that i went home and had a really sick feeling in my stomach.

[whydoIlive]

So my opinion is that it's not uncommon for the babysitter to like the guy who they're babysitting for but tbh this sounds bad. So the only questions I have are
1- are you under the legal age to consent
2- did you consent
3- what's the age difference
And 4- does anybody know, like your parents or someone
Because if you're under age then he could go to prison for sexual assault and you being a minor and also this is something serious because how you told the story of what happened it sounds like he didn't ask for your consent and also the last part with the kitchen it kinda sounds like he forced himself onto you

[Drumlin2001]

Why were you sleeping over? Why would you not have gone home once he was back?
How old are you? Whats age of consent where you live?

[Asker]

Im from England, i sleep there over night sometimes because he sometimes goes out with friends to the pub at night or he might be working. he's a doctor so is constantly on call and he needs someone to take care of his kids at night more now his wife walked out. When i babysit at night, i usually sleep over as its not safe to walk home by myself in the middle of the night and sometimes i get paid extra for walking the kids to school in the morning. Im from England and I've just turned 16 so technically im of age

[Drumlin2001]

Your parents have never thought it may be inappropriate for you to be sleeping at his house? Anyway, you tried to seduce him, when you ended up in a situation where the two off you were alone and no one would interupt (which you helped manufacture by skipping school), what did you expect to happen? From what you say you never said no to him. I think the authorities would have trouble pursuing a rape case as it's very much a he said she said. Probably best not to babysit for him again.

[Asker]

My parents know him and were the ones who suggested i help him out more once his wife left because they thought he'd be struggling and im very close to the children. I didn't say no but i did try to push his hands off me and told him to get off me but he was to strong. I didn't want to have sex with him and afterwards i cried and he just walked out my house and left me. I felt so scared, confused and sick. I do blame myself. I did like him but i didn't want my first time to be like that.

[Drumlin2001]

You said originally you just froze. If you've tried to push him away and verbally communicated that you wanted him to get off it's rape. You need to your parents and go to police.

[Anonymous]

He is a pedophile rapist; which his wife probably realized before she left him. Tell your parents and call the cops on him. He should spend the rest of his life behind bars for what he did to you.

[bassinguy76]

Sounds like a porn script. Fun

[Anonymous]

He wants you but because you are underage he doesn't want to go to jail. Best not tempt him until you are 18.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, your updates explains a lot. You were raped by him. Even if you enjoyed it. You should tell your parents and call the cops on him. This is probably why his wife left him.

[magiusX26]

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