Am I being a hoe or is this normal?

I like to have sexual relations with two guys, I also have relationships with men online and on the phone. My family tell me to stop doing these things but I want to keep going. I want to hang out with better people but I don't know many people except at church but they are all older. I don't get out anymore so all I can do is sneak out and do naughty things because I can't think of other things to do to get myself out of the house, or I want to do things on my own and my family stops me from doing them. I don't have a car and I barely make enough to move away. Should I do as my family tell me even though I am 34 or should I just keep going and have a good time? Does this also make me a Hoe?
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Superb Opinion

  • If your guys know about the others, you are being honest with them. It sounds like you are unhappy about many things, so there are many things you may want to change. But if you want to have both guys, and do things online and on the phone, if you are honest with everyone, then you are not being bad.

    • I don't tell my family though what I do because they won't understand why I like to do these things. I try to explain but they freak out and call me names.

    • You do not need to tell them, just be honest with the guys. If they can accept that you need two guys and like the online and phone kinks, then you will all be happy!

    • Yeah but they won't budge they want me to be like them and stop me from being myself.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Not makes you a strong woman that wants to live her life as she sees fit and I understand I don't know where you go to meet people otherwise I probably wouldn't have found this site but it doesn't make you a hoe it makes you normal I mean that you're waiting until you're 35 to find out you need to cut the apron strings might be a little bit slow but I suspect there's more to the story and you're just moving back home and they don't approve of it what you're doing at least... I would move...

    • I need to get a better paying job and a car

    • Yeah those are kind of important to be able to just pick up and go

Most Helpful Girl

  • Do whatever the hell you want to do. If you are enjoying yourself and being safe then who cares. And your parent's really shouldn't be trying to control your life when you're 34. You do you!

    • Yes I am always safe I know these guys I go with but my family thinks one will kill me or they will not see me again. Then there is Covid-19 they use that to, to get me to stay home but I go anyway.

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  • You have one life.. just live it and enjoy it, have fun do whatever you like as long as you dont hurt or impact on any one elses fun in the process

    • Ok if you are a hoe I'm a shovel let's make a garden LMAO
    • Okay I'm going to tell you something that's going to ROCK YOUR WORLD
    • You will reach levels of ecstacy that you never new existed
    • But not here follow me you will be glad you did
  • You like to have sexual relations with two guys, yea you are clearly a hoe.

  • You don't have to sleep with anyone technically to be a whore. But to answer your question yes you are.

  • Just enjoy yourself and your life. I think this shouldn't be a problem as long as everyone knows what you are up to and no one gets hurt.

    • yes but my family is very religious, they all think I am being a horrible person. I am religious sometimes but I am open minded as well. I don't know how to tell them to stop worrying and just let me go have my fun and I will come back. They actually stop me from going out, but I know the guys I am fucking so I feel I am safe.

    • You mentioned it. Religious^^ I'm not religious because there are so many old-fashioned values. If religion would be more modern and fit to the actual standards it maybe smth I like. But since everything there is totally out-dated... and yeah lots of people don't get things like that. At least you are a woman and due to social standards women are not allowed to have fun or they are sluts. That's totally stupid...

    • I actually do feel like I don't want to believe in god or anything anymore either, I do like that they give you guide lines but its very restrictive, you shouldn't watch certain movies or do anything because they are evil and have bad things but so do all of the religious books.

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  • You do what makes you happy, don't label it because other people think that's what it is, if this is what makes you happy in life do it, just be careful during

  • Do what ever your hart dsires girl do be discrete with your choosen partners as the wrong frllas will be down the shed telling there mates ans any other yobbo and thats how you will get reputation as a hoe but that is reficulars your not and real men know how lucky they sre to be chosen to participate a f treat you like s queen. as long as your doing it because you enjoy it than go for gold its not anyone elses business and the church can just accept it

  • It makes you a hoe if you have actual physical interaction with multiple guys. I don't think you do so you are as afe

  • You're old enough to know what's best for you. So I suggest you make every effort to move out, even if you have to have a roommate. I don't think you are a ho, you just love sex.

  • You need to focus on getting your shit together and act like an adult. Get your own place

  • Absolutely not. You like what you like. If it makes you cum that much harder. Go for it. I also love have some fun online. I like being watched and like being able to the girl watch me as I cum for them online. PM me maybe we can have some fun

  • Do you plan to get married?

  • I don't judge infact you can have me too 😜

  • If you have to ask if you are a hoe... you are certainly a hoe.

  • Do you what you want. Just be careful.

  • Do what feels good. People will call you a hoe, but you'll be a happy person.

  • You seem a little slutty but I'm cool with that. Do your thing baby hope to see you out there

  • no you are not a hoe, it's your life, be free to live it as you wish.

  • All you are not doing is getting paid for your services. You may as well.

  • People are just jealous because you're not a vanilla wafer and you know how to have fun. I mean I like big barbecues put my name on it online offline no line it don't matter

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