Did I do something wrong or he is turned off?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys.. so I had a question and I’ve been kind of confused about it. So I’ve been dating someone for a month and we’ve been having a great time and all. Intimacy has been great we have fun with that too but I’m not sure if it’s just me or he’s getting bored but the first times we’ve had a lot of sex but now it’s like not as much as before I’m not sure if I’m just being selfish lol. Or I’m not sure if I’ve bored him and need to step it up.. something that recently got me is we were having sex and then he stopped and said I’m too much and a lot? Why? What does that mean? And how can I step it up and have better , fun intimate moments with him?

[triff]

I think you need to chat to him There is nothing from what you have said that could be described as doing wrong Stepping things up You have to look at that very carefully Dont be drawn in to doing things that your not comfortable with When you enter a new relationship and progress to sexual encounters Everything is exciting and new After the sex becomes on tap the excitement tends to dwindle Perhaps your seeing each other to often and not doing your own things anymore when you see someone all the time it can become over bearing especially when your not seeing each other but texting all the time Remember the people you were and mix that in aswell

[jmf909]

By finding a better man capable of satisfing you because you have worn this bloke out and he newds a few days to recover. bravo girl you are a bomb in bed keep exploring and trying new things and have the best time getting him off and yourself . if you really want more then him but want to keep him have a talk about dogging or having a extrs guy or two on stand by to take up the slack he cannot handle if your open and honest all involves will have great fun.

[AustinMan]

I'd suggest telling him that you are one horny wench and that you need him to take the lead and fuck as much and as hard as he wants.

[jshm2]

You've probably got him thinking he's just a piece of meat to you.

Perhaps ease off the sex, and stimulate him mentally more.

[MannMitAntworten]

He sounds like he has a lower sex drive than you do. “Stepping it up” would likely be going in the wrong direction with him. Poor woman...

[Wise4myage]

You barely know each other, so it might be a case of too much, too soon. But talk to him and try to find some middle ground. If nothing changes, then maybe you should move on. In future relationships, don't be so quick to have sex.

[Cowboy6666]

Seems he has low sex drive than yours

[Asker]

That’s what I was thinking and want to think..

[Cowboy6666]

How old are you? How old is he?

[asshole_]

turned off

[DimpleGuy]

Use your kinds, secret fantasies, don't just have regular sex, spice up , buy some toys, pills, that drive people crazy😍tease him , wearing sexy revealing outfits, always try some new position, new style, try role-play, watch best porn together, for more info, search how to spice up sex life, etc

[sandwichman]

How often is the sex? If its too much for his sex drive there isn't much you can do

[Asker]

The first times was like 3 times or more but now it’s like just once or twice or nothing at all.

[sandwichman]

In A day or a week?

[Asker]

It would be everyday and lots of it.. now in a whole week? I say 3 times.. it went from all the time to barely or we do but just once everyday..

[sandwichman]

I think he needs a bit of a break from sex probably try to find a balance that works for both of you he seems like he could handle once every other day and also try to mix it up a little maybe don't have sex for a bit and don't ask for it and see the how he reacts and either before or after ask him yourself if he needs a break from sex sometimes

[Anonymous]

Hmm have y'all tried anal?