Should trans people tell dates they’re trans before sex?

[OddBeMe]

We all have the right to privacy. Gray area.

[RemoErdosain]

Usually, it won't be necessary, since it will be at least somewhat noticeable. In any case, yes, they should make sure that the other person knows, unless they want a complete fiasco where they get to the bedroom and then get into an argument because the person feels they've been tricked or something. If everyone knows, that's best for both parts

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I say yes. If someone believes that they are dating a person of a specific gender and their expectation of that gender comes with specific body parts then they should have this discussion ahead of time

Would is be considered wrong if a straight man posed as a female and tricked a lesbian into having sexual relations by withholding his true status until he had already started licking her and fingering her?

[Anonymous]

As a trans woman I believe it is my responsibility to inform my potential sexual partners about myself. As well, it is also my responsibility to inform them of my previous sexual history and any STIs and the last time I got tested. My right to privacy ended when I invited you into my bed.

[Lizzzzz288283]

I think so. People have preferences, not everyone is going to want to have sex with someone who is trans. If I were trans I would make it clear before I even met up with them. I think it could be dangerous to wait so long after knowing them to say

[Sabretooth]

there's no thinking about it.

[Lizzzzz288283]

@Sabretooth eh I don’t know. Its 2020 a lot of the gen z population is more open and nice about trans people and such. Not everyone will be that way though

[Lizzzzz288283]

Good to be cautious though def

[Sabretooth]

I wouldn't call any guy gay for being with a trans girl who looked like this: www.famousbirthdays.com/people/miss-london.html the issue is when you factor in trans males-even though they have the female chromosome. Now, if we're talking about a a guy who just claims to be a trans girl? Yeah-I'm staying out of that one... though, it does provide me a way out if there's a draft under trump's administration.

[OlderAndWiser]

Uh, when you have sex with someone, you are giving up your right to privacy. Tell them long before it gets to the bedroom!

[Berethor]

Well if they don't want risk being killed ( something that happened to many trans) then yes.

[EmmaMary]

Definitely, if nothing else it's showing complete and open honesty and also allows the other party to either accept or decline continuing.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Oh yes they should.

[genericname85]

they should tell before or on the first date. cause nobody likes having their time wasted.

[Rich1071]

We all technically have rights. I think the trans persons on has just as much rights to withhold that information as well

[wondering_guy]

I feel it should be known right away because if you don't and down the line they find out and they break it off, you will get hurt, at least you know where you stand at the beginning

[NorthwestRider]

Only if they want to tell the other people

[jasco]

Yes they should cause it not fair if you don't do so

[Twalli]

I would say they should know

[asshole_]

YES!

[IlluminatiExposed]

Yes, and it's not a grey area. Because running to the bathroom to throw up may offend.

[CubaPirate]

I they don't they could be in trouble for false advertising

[TheAfrikan]

They should. How would I sleep and have sex with a girl, and in the morning she is like"hey do you mind if am to admit that I was a guy" I would be crazy.

[Anonymous]

Of course they should.

[Anonymous]

Yes.