How do I approach my boyfriend to let him know I want to have sex?

Hi everyone, I’ve seen this site so much and it seems awesome, so I GI ally decided to create an account an engage in the community!

my first question is: How do I approach my boyfriend to let him know I want to have sex?

I have had sex before but only with hookups. I’m not really sure how to do it with a boyfriend.

thanks everyone! 😊
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Superb Opinion

  • If he's your boyfriend, sex is hardly something that won't have crossed his mind a few billion times (just this week alone), so you really don't need to do much. Just tell him that you can't wait to spend some "special alone time" with him, and he'll catch on very quickly if he's not a total idiot.

    You might also want to read my reply here, where I went into a lot more detail about this very subject:

    Guys, You Want Women To Initiate Sex More, Right?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Welcome, Megan! We're glad you're here.

    My recommendation is this: the next time he takes you out, kiss him during the meal. And then kiss him again. And then kiss him before you leave. And then kiss him as you're leaving. And then kiss him long and hard when you get outside. Then pull him close and hold him tight, and kiss him again -- long and hard and deep. Then grab him by his shoulders, say his name, look him in the eye, and say, "I want you to fuck me.". And give him a flirty, dirty, look while you're saying it. Then transition to the cute and pouty look. And rub his leg if you have to.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Just say you wanna fuck guys always want to hear that.

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  • Just get him out for an intimate drink and tell him that you want to take this to the next level.

  • First get some. Condoms. Then bring up the subject of sex with him. It is OK to talk about sex after all. Then ask him if he wants to take the relationship to a new level.
    Have you fooled around with him at all?

  • There is no much difference between how you do that in hookups and with your boyfriend.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager

  • "Not sure how to do it with a boyfriend"

    Sometimes women really baffle me. Just wear something nice and start touching him. Any form of physical affection should be enough to get him going

  • Just ask him to do that. It's just a part of necessary communication between you two.

  • just ask him if he wants to fool around with you. maybe sit on his lap and rub your butt or crotch on his crotch. depending on how you sit on his lap that is. maybe wear something you know he will like to see you in. consider just rubbing your hand on his crotch or up and down his inner thigh.

  • Walk in naked ask does he see anything he'd like?

  • Invite him to stay over a night, obviously it helps both to connect physically.

  • So, you're clueless about seduction. Got it.
    How 'bout just show him your tits?
    Or "Come fuck me now." That's what wifey says.

    Or, "Let's do it."

    I wonder what people did before there was GAG... LOL

  • If you have discussed it before and you are both comfortable talking about it I would do it that way but if you want to give him a thrill wait until your out somewhere and whisper in his ear. Don't get too tired here because I want to be fucked and fucked well tonight, That will blow his mind.

  • wear a short sjirt, tennis skirt abd no leggings and where near him grab his hand and put it in you vagina. Also when standing guide his hands abd put them on your ass cheeks. Good luck☺

  • Just go to his house and initiate a kiss and it will automatically happen from there

  • go up to him and start taking your clothes off. if he hasn't attacked you by the time you're naked, there's something else wrong

  • Just get naked baby.

  • Well sit on his lap and rub his meat with your butt, kiss him deeply while unzipping his pants or just tell him, that or lingerie

  • you don't have to make a formal announcement you can just jump on him and rub your boobs in his face or reach down his pants

  • Just ask him if he wants to have sex.

  • Just tell him

  • Try "I want to have sex." Works on me every time. lol

  • You ask him on a date. Set up the mood bad then say it

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