Have you ever managed to be with a crush? Did it meet expectations?

Have you ever managed to be with a crush? Did it meet expectations?
Was it worth it? Did it work out? Details please!

Kinda getting close to a co-worker i'v had a crush on and off for 4 years now. I'v been doing my own thing but iv been wondering if i do finally get a chance to be with him, if i'll be worth it.
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  • Yeah it didn’t work out. Actually I’ve done it multiple times and it didn’t work out. There was one a guy that I had a crush on for about like 10 years give or take. We’ve known each other since we were little kids, but neither of us ever made a move til my senior year of high school. We ended up making out and sexting and stuff, but once I felt as though I had him I just didn’t want him anymore so I lost interest and moved on. We still run into each other from time to time. I think he still has feelings for me.

    The second was my crush from school. It was the very first day of senior year and I saw this guy walk into class. And I was like immediately smitten. He got moved to a different class, but they put him back in my class months later and he decided to sit next to me. We started flirting and talking and eventually I ended up telling him that I wanted to have sex with him. He kinda just ignored my offer for no strings attached sex, but a week later he kissed me and asked me to be his girlfriend. He took my virginity. He dumped me. He started rumors about me. He dated a new girl. He cheated on the new girl with me. He begged me not to tell her. I told her. He threatened to assault me. A few months later he asked me to spend the night with him. I said no. He erased all his social media and disappeared and I’ve never seen him again.

    • You slept with a guy that had a girlfriend that took your virginity and told rumors about you? Wtf?

  • Yes I have. Yes it was worth it. No it didn’t work out. It was the best relationship of my life and he was so much nicer than the jerks I normally date. But I wasn’t good for him so I broke up with him for his own good. He deserved better.

    • awwww that's cute and sad, i'm sorry it didn't work out

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  • I've definitely had a chance to be with my crush and I fell in love with him and we're still together 6 years later.

  • I wish I answered this when it was popular because it’s a really good question. Every boy I had a crush on me and them ended up dating, whether it was actually dating or just friends with benefits. I’ve did it so many times. Most the time it didn’t work out because they weren’t emotionally available and just wanted freedom and no relationship which was a shame.

  • I did last year and it actually exceeded my expectations at first but eventually I got disappointed because I wanted more than he wanted and I ended up feeling hurt. The initial part of meeting him was amazing though.

    • What happened? I'm crushing with a co-worker rn and i'm curious how it goes down.

    • Well my situation was kinda unique. I was a student manager for my school's football team so I got to be around the team on a regular basis. Most of the guys were too cocky and not my type but there was one guy who I thought was so unique and sexy and I did not think he was into me at all. But I randomly met him on campus and we started talking and he wanted to study with me. He was a gentleman lol, like we actually studied and had little coffee dates. We hooked up and it was also far beyond what I expected. He's the one that got away haha

  • Yes, once. I liked this guy for about 8 years. He finally got interested and I ended things, pretty soon after it started.

  • yes, it's always worth it

  • I sucked my crushs dick back in high school he didn’t want to date me though because I’m trans but his dick was absolutely amazing still the best I’ve tasted

  • Happened twice for what I'd classify as having a hard crush on someone... both times exceeded expectations from a physical sexual standpoint... neither really materialized into "relationships" - both were let's go out have some fun type of things - both lasted about a year.

  • Nope

    Probably never will

  • She is a old married friend. Been crushing each other. Keeps coming round to the workshop. In her sexy Short skirts. b
    Husband is always away. Either working not off playing golf.
    She has been round in a night watch a film. She has kissed me but she was a little drunk..
    I don't want this to go any further but I cannot think what she is after...

  • nope

  • No, I can't say so


    Is your coworker a black guy? :)

    • actually no, i won't say his race but he's not black.

    • Oh I see. Good luck to you in sliding into his heart 😉

    • yea thanks i guess, iv literally stopped being a black cock slut just so i wouldn't have to feel bad when i'm talking to him, tho i am scared he'll ask about my sexual past at one point, and i don't lie

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  • I did, yes, and the paparazzi quickly drove me nuts.

  • What you mean I only get with ladys I find attractive

  • Yes I did. But it ended up just being a one night stand. I wish it lasted longer.

  • Well I guess my crush and I are just friends but I don't bring it up. We've got good chemistry but she's not interested in me as a boyfriend but a friend.

  • In high school I did, it was the best 3 months of high school for me

  • It honestly depends if its worth it or not on certain situations. If you yourself, wants to focus on that specific crush and seeing if you wanna put your heart into them making the amount of effort wining thiers, if he or she is taken, or if its just a no go like off limits. You say he's your co-worker right? Is that why you've been keeping it lowkey? Id say maybe try to ask him on a date and be like im not trying to ruin our relationship we share at work but i was wondering if you'd like to go out. If not that's fine but i have a crush on you but i don't also want this to affect the work environment. Set boundaries if you guys date. I did try to be with a childhood crush of mine but it was a no go for a lot of reasons i won't state here but i gave myself tips in my personal diary, i believed in myself, and basically out of my way to impress him a lot lol i was 14 back then so yeah. But good luck!