Is it a bad thing that I had sex for the first time at 26?

[Anonymous]

I just ask, because 90% of people tend to do it for the first time at 15-18 years of age, and it was NOT intentional to wait that long, just lack of opportunity, and lack of confidence, due to being a virgin.

I am 26, and it happened a few months ago for me, with an amazing young woman who took me under her wing (Even though she was NOT a virgin, she had only been with one man before me), and sex with her is just amazing.

Would women see that a red flag? Just wondering.

PS, It did NOT go how you thought it would. Had to speak to my doctor about my sexual issues, and got some help. It turns out that I had a physical condition, in which my body produces too much cholesterol, according to her, and it is not related to what I eat. After that, I managed to have fulfilling sex, and I did NOT suffer from premature ejaculation... Took me a while actually (About 30 minutes), but I managed to cum :) It was amazing :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Why would that be bad? When a person had sex for their first time is a personal decision, personal event in someone's life and not something others have a right to condemn someone for or make that decision for anyone but themselves. I'm so glad tho that your first sexual experience was a great one! That's not always the case! Maybe if more people waited for the right timing, right person instead of having sex just to have sex or just not to be a virgin, there would be even more great first time stories 🤔

[Asker]

Well, I just didn't have the confidence or the mindset to approach a woman, due to the fact I felt intimidated being a virgin. That's NOT the case anymore, and it was great. She was so happy that I lasted a long time too, since her last and only man before me apparently couldn't, being that he had to use condoms to last longer. So, looking at it that way, I was a breath of fresh air. Yes, there would be a lot of good first time stories, but mine was frustrating due to ED. All I can say is that Sildenafil gave me freedom to enjoy myself, and no needing to worry whether or not my penis would work. :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That's awesome 😎

[Asker]

Yes :)

[ZiZi_Bell]

No that's nothing to be ashamed of. Virginity or lack thereof is not anything to be either proud or ashamed of.

I've hooked up with plenty of virgins (mostly because it's kind of a kink for me lol), and trust me, it's only a problem if you make it a problem.

[Asker]

How did the hookups go? Did they happen to suffer from premature ejaculation?

[ZiZi_Bell]

The hookups always go great, but it's more psychologically fulfilling for me than anything. Lol Usually yeah they'll cum before I do, but that's to be expected.

[Asker]

Well, the woman I am with, I can usually go 30 minutes without a problem, but if the sex is rough, I may last only about 5 minutes hahaha

[ZiZi_Bell]

Most of the virgins I've been with have lasted only a couple minutes if they're on top. So 9 times out of 10 I'm on top to make it last longer. This has the added benefit of more pleasure for the both of us, and them looking up at me like I'm a goddess giving them a divine gift. XD Like I said, fucking virgins is more psychologically pleasing to me. Lol

[Asker]

I am on top, and I can last a while, so I guess I was lucky. Plus, does size really matter at all? I am not super well-endowed to be honest hahaha

[ZiZi_Bell]

Do you masturbate a lot? Because that can affect it. And size doesn't matter if you have good technique. So she's probably teaching you well. Lol

[Asker]

I used to do it a lot when I was a virgin, and was depressed/anxious due my lack of confidence stemming from my virginity. Not as much now. I did it a lot because that all I had, and all I would get. Well, I am only about 6 inches long, and a little over 5 inches in circumference... xD

[ZiZi_Bell]

Guys develop more testosterone when they don't masturbate as much, so that could be it. And that's a pretty good size cock. Lol Easy to please with something like that.

[Asker]

Well, my testosterone levels are normal, according to my doctor, but I still have issues with ED, so I have to get a helping hand with that blue pill (Works amazing, as it takes a lot of pressure off of me). Really? I think it is pretty small, but I guess I just have large hands. xD I am glad you think that is a good sized cock... Makes me a feel a little better :) It is circumcised, but looks good and is quite big, according to my woman haha :D

[Asker]

Also, if you do not mind me asking, how big are your breasts? :) I am curious xD

[Anonymous]

No, i only kiss a girl once (she was ugly) and only got oral sex once (she was a single mom). I'm 27, but i am a loser. At least you had sex and you're working a nice job or in college about to get one.

[Asker]

I know the feeling. I just hope things change for you! You are deserving of a woman that treats you right. :) It is hard to find that first one... It will not be easy, but once you do, it will be so worth it :) Did you manage to finish from the oral? because I cannot cannot.

[Jamie05rhs]

My gahd. Why are you still whining?
You got LAID, dude!!

[Jamie05rhs]

Stop being insecure.

[Asker]

Sounds like someone didn't get laid until 26 too... Welcome to the club, bru! :)

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

If a woman asks you, just lie about it. Its that simple

[nunorodrigues44]

I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin.
It's kinda embarassing because start losing theirs at this age

[nunorodrigues44]

teenagers*

[Asker]

Well at least you aren't 26. If you manage to do before 26, you are, therefore, better than me! :)

[Anonymous]

How did you and her first meet? And what do you mean she took you under her wing?