FOREPLAY is an essential part of sex?

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  • full agree

    • while it is true that size and shape of a guys dick. can effect his ability to pleasure a girl to some degree.
    • if your talking vaginal sex. the average woman's canal is 2-4 inch deep when not horny. but can expand or stretch to 5-8 inch deep when horny. however some can go more those are just the average numbers.
    • if the woman is sufficiently aroused or horny. typically requires a decent amount of foreplay. they might need a decent amount of lubrication (saliva or tube lube). so both people might need to preform oral on each other to some degree. while taking it slow at first so she can get used to the size and shape.
    • average width of a woman's vaginal canal is 1-2 inches wide. but it has the ability to stretch out more depending on her level of arousal. since it can expand to let out a baby after all.
    • the average woman's g-spot is only 1-3 inches deep inside her. so if a guy can hit that mark regularly. she should still feel a good amount of pleasure. might need a vibrating toy, use fingers or switch up positions to hit the g-spot. since it can be a difficult angle to range.
    • however good foreplay skills can tip the scale in his favor for sure. when it comes to pleasing a woman. since most girls tend to orgasm better from clit simulation.
      ideally just talk with her and ask what she likes and dislikes. she might be unsure but willing to try something new.
    • many girls who like 9+ inch typically do anal or oral more then vaginal. however there are those rare few. who can take one that big vaginally. with little or no discomfort.
    • Thanks for your brilliant answer Great statistics and information

Most Helpful Guy

  • Many many years ago, I dated a girl who had a very short vaginal canal. I am average but I would fit only about half of me. The only way we would be able to enjoy each other was to get the girl extremely aroused. Apparently, vaginal canal elongates when aroused. So, yes, foreplay is very important part of sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say yes it is essential, but foreplay can be many things.

    It's not always physical. Sometimes it's mental or emotional. I think sexting can be considered foreplay if you're meeting up later to have actual sex. I've had times where just talking to someone about what we were going to do or wanted to do was enough to get me ready to go. Spend the time before we meet talking about what we're going to do, and by the time we meet I'm so turned on I can't wait and just get straight to it. Lol

    • There will be some people who don't think about this But', i'n the same camp as you on this Sexting before really can get you in the mood

    • Agree here! And only time I'll do sexting.. With Someone I'm already sleeping with where you know those words will become actions and not just words or self pleasuring

    • Agree. This kind of covers how cudding and emotion can lead to great sex. The best sex comes from being mad at each other lol (make-up) and there's no physical foreplay involved. Just throwing each other on the bed or sometimes not even making it that far.

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  • I think it depends on different factors how essential, if a man is going to cum quicker or females who have trouble orgasming from penetration, it's very essential. But for longer lasting men and women that prefer penetration orgasm the actual foreplay is less essential... Some of the hottest sex I've had there was sometimes little to no foreplay... But long hot multiple orgasms sex.

    • Everyone is different in their desires I agree

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  • Agree. I'm really kinky and that's when most of the kink occurs.

    • Sure it does, to bring out her NAUGHTIER side :D

  • MMMMMMMMy, It is. xx

    • MMMMMM, yes it is!! xx

  • I would absolutely agree with that.

    • 100% :)

  • Like honestly no foreplay isn't always important. If y'all both already in the mood then I can't see what's wrong with going straight into sex.

    • On the other hand, you're exploring each other's body which I think can add to the excitement and make it more intense

    • Maybe I'm weird then. I get more excited if he just randomly surprises me by sticking it in when I'm in the kitchen or like randomly in the middle of the night. The suprises are way more thrilling then knowing having to wait to for sex driving foreplay

    • I get where you are coming from too with the surprise thing Last week a friend and I saw each other again after a few years Things quickly took hold and before long we were having sex OMG, didn't expect that

  • Strongly agree

    • Yes, me too Don't get why people don't agree

  • Agree.

    • Strongly agree

  • I agree. And it's fun.

    • Yes it is

  • 130%

    • Agreed

  • Of course. Sex without foreplay, is bad sex

  • No foreplay = No sex

    • Foreplay makes it more intense I think

    • Foreplay makes it happen.

    • Would certainly agree with that

  • Yeah it makes me wetter, making sex more easier and pleasurable.

    • Defo, it makes it more pleasurable

  • Agree

  • Duh.

    • I think it is but people do disagree for some reason

    • I don't see how anyone would disagree. Besides, foreplay is fun!!

    • Agree completely, don't understand why either

  • yes esp for girls

  • totally agree

    • Glad you agree with me

  • Agree, 100%. Foreplay is very important.

    • Certainly is in my opinion

    • Cool. Plus, it makes the ending much better.

    • 100% it does!

  • Agreed

  • It is not essential as far as procreation goes.

  • Yesssss i foreplaay is neccesary

    • Yessss I'm totally with you on that

  • Very much so it’s like warming Each other ready.

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