Do women typically ask for, or want to see a shirtless photo, before deciding to hook up?
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This happened a while ago, I didn't even bring up sex, and I think the first thing she said was "Do you have a shirtless pic?" My response was to unmatch, so nothing followed, but I assume she wanted to judge my physique for a hookup. If not that, then I expect she would've roped me in with compliments and then asked for money... So I'm just wondering if this is common behavior for a woman on a dating app
It's common knowledge that women are more objective when it comes to casual sex
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It's not common
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devilish-cutieGuru
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she just wanted to know how you look like since its relevant for attraction could be she just wanted hook up but it could also be she just was going over her checklist of what she wants in a guy
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Asker
+1 y
Seems kinda shallow for her first question. It's not like I need to hide my physique, but I'm not going to take my shirt off whenever someone asks
devilish-cutie
+1 y
I understand your point of view and it really depends on the contex. I don't know what you talked about and how soon she asked me. One time online chatting a really decent guy (up to that point) asked me sexual question. I was like ok, im done. But I was like, ok im gonna give him a chance cause i really feel like he is ok. Turns out he was still respectful and just wanted to know how sexually compatible we are. I also prior to that asked him is he there for sexting and he said no. My advice? Just be straightforward and ask/say important things. Like eg. i told this guy i was looking for something serious. So be rather straightforward rather than assume.
devilish-cutie
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she asked you*
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Asker
+1 y
Yeah good point, I could've said something rather than leave the conversation
devilish-cutie
+1 y
Maybe its just about not jumping to conusions without making sure what other peraon meant. And yeah we all get that dont put up w this that but sometimes you just gotta be understanding. We are all humams with flaws. If anything you learn from it.
Asker
+1 y
I'm sorry I don't think you know me enough to tell me I need to be more understanding
devilish-cutie
+1 y
You are literally asking advice from strangers
Asker
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I don't think I was asking for advice at all. The question was whether or not this is common behavior for women seeking a hookup.
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CelteroGuru
+1 y
Lol, I think it's reasonable to want to know what somebody's body is like before considering them for a date. How many schlubs are there online that try to be disingenuous to hide how fat or out of shape they are? This goes for both genders.
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FeelicksExplorer
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Dating apps are just hell for most men. Great if you happen to be an underwear model.
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Apple1996Master
+1 y
It's weird for a girl to ask for that right away. Would be different if she spent more time getting to know you then maybe asked for a shirtless pic later on.
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Asker
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Right? I found it quite rude, but I'm curious what would've happened
Apple1996
+1 y
I'm not exactly sure what a girl even gets out of a shirtless pic like I wouldn't rub my pussy to just a pic of that. Maybe it's to lure you on for more pics tho
Asker
+1 y
Lmao, more pics. Nah she was about to unmatch after seeing my pic and then I would've been hurt
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