Has anyone ever deceived or tricked you to try and convince you to get sexual with them?

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Makeushiver · Accepted Answer

yeah and I should have seen it from a mile away, In college, I lived in a duplex with about 12 people. total. One of them was a blonde. I had one of the 4 private bedrooms in the 2 houses and she knocked on my door to ask if she could sleep in my room because the party that was going on it the main part of the house was keeping her from sleeping. It happened at a time when I was monogamous for some time, I think she took that as a challenge because she got completely naked and slipped into bed with me. I hadn't expected her to sleep in my bed, just my room. I didn't do a thing despite having a beautiful, naked, and obviously willing girl right next to me. She slipped her hand onto my thigh and started stroking it higher and higher. That's the point where the monogamy ended. I figured I was relatively innocent because I never led her on. When a beautiul, naked girl starts fondling ypu its too difficult to resist

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

Yes. Chics ask you to stop by to to help study for grad school or "hey I drew paintings in my apartment wanna see?" Then... do you want a beer? Sure. Okay. Then laughing a few times. Telling jokes. But oh no. We aren't having sex okay? But of course saying that brings up the though of sex. But then she says she is tired so she plops on the couch. Now she is slowly pressing her pelvis against your leg... girls plot accidents.

ZiZi_Bell · Accepted Answer

One time a guy said his girlfriend dumped him and he was heartbroken and wanted to forget, then after we had sex he tried to say he had just gotten a text from her saying she wanted to get back together. I asked her myself and she had never dumped him, though she did after that.

Another time I refused to give a guy head and he said his dad had died. I pulled out my phone and pulled up the pictures he had posted on Facebook of him and his dad fishing the day before. He was pretty embarrassed.

And one time a girl told me she had been raped, but while I was comforting her she tried to kiss me and put her hands down my pants.

Sigh. I'm sure there are more, but those are the ones that jumped straight to mind.

ineedatan · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately yes. Self respect and love, as well as learning to say no has been such a battle for me. I never caved in for any random guy, it was mainly those whom I was in a toxic/crumbling relationship with, and he would either use sex against me or thinking it could mend things out after a heated disagreement.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Tried to deceive, yes... Even once truth was out and concrete proof, still kept trying... smh sad tho I wasn't the only one they were trying to or getting away with deceiving 🤷🏼‍♀️

1Sophisticatedme · Answer

no never for me. I can't figure out why some people do that on other's 😕. Never experience it so I can't realy say much about it.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

Many times... usually after a few drinks.. "only a few is okay.. you won't get drunk. You can trust me.. I just want to be your friend." And the Pathetic Puppy Eye guy I am a sucker for...

ohshee · Answer

I have prayed for thst to happen I'm still waiting lmao

Aliceinwonderland22 · Answer

When I was in school, some guy made me feel guilty so that I let him feel my boob (in clothes still)... he was right though, to this day I am pretty frigid XD

90sVibe · Answer

Yes, many guys have tried to "trick and deceive" me into something sexual but I'm too strict with rules that even though I'm very gullible, I never end up getting into those situations I'd regret later.

normalice · Answer

Yeah, a guy asked me to have a threesome with a really cute girl. Of course, she "didn't show up." So, he offered to blow me. I figured 'whatever' and let him. It was really bland, tbh.

Jjpayne · Answer

Not yet 😊

SjE78 · Answer

a few women yes, and it was annoying tbh especially since i had stated i was after something more meaningful and genuine and all they wanted to do was get what they want and ghost

JPrez · Answer

Almost. I once had a girl say that she had nasty thoughts about me. It was very tempting to respond and react but I held back.

SphynxUK · Answer

I’m afraid I’m not that gullible.

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

How would this play out exactly?

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well... If grooming and abuse counts then yes.

supercutebutt · Answer

I know a guy who told me stories about finding escorts online and messaging them saying he was a male escort and had clients who were interested in watching a couples show. So he would try and set up a "practice session" with the girls to see if they had good chemistry together. He got at least a half dozen free blowjobs this way lol. :)

just_a_potato · Answer

Yes when I was about 11 a guy who was a few years older than me used the fact that my parents sheltered me to do sexual things for him in a locked bathroom up until I was 13 when I realized this wasn't normal. He threatened to tell my parents what I have done if I said something was wrong so I never did. I know this story is kinda sad compared to the rest of the stuff in the opinions but yeah that's mine 😅