The question in your title and what you then go on to describe are two different things though. First you ask in a very general sense, then suddenly it's specifically about giving BJs to guys they don't know. Which one is it now? Okay, I'll answer both:
And then suddenly you end this with a completely general question again - "Do some women really enjoy it in itself?". Again, why on Earth wouldn't they enjoy that? But you really need to be a little more focused when you ask a question. Are you asking in general or specifically about casual sex encounters? Oh well, I've answered both for you now.
Is it so weird to accept that it's hard to understand something that's completely alien to you?
It's not weird that you find it hard to put yourself in the shoes of people who feel very differently than you do. But to accept the fact that everybody has different preferences and feelings? I don't know, to me it's weird that someone would see a problem with that. I mean, what are you hoping for? That everyone has the same sexual feelings that YOU have? I don't think that's what you're hoping for. I think it's very important for all of us to try to understand each other and learn that just because we feel one way about something, does not mean that that's the "right" way to feel about it and how others feel about it is the "wrong" way. Personally, I find it totally weird that someone would NOT enjoy that. Like, why? It's sex. It's supposed to be pleasurable and enjoyable. But at the same time I 100% respect and accept that you and others do not personally feel that way about it. To each their own. What I'm not cool with is when people start judging others and putting them down just because they feel different about something. Live and let live! Also, I'm still confused about the way you phrased your question, haha. Is this SPECIFICALLY about giving BJs to hookups, or GENERALLY about BJs? Those are two different questions, but you ask them as if they were one and the same.
No, I just wanted to understand the appeal of it even though I don't "feel it". Also, I wanted to understand why I don't find it appealing at all on the contrary. It was specifically about BJ not sex in general.
It's all in there head , they saw porn in which girls love to give blow job and beg for it , feels so good after giving blowjob
It's like a brainwash to love giving blowjob
Agree 👍🏻
i definitely don't see it as a power trip to give a blowjob or controlling someone and i've heard those accusations before... a lot of it is about intimacy and you can have that intimacy with someone who isn't your boyfriend or husband... a lot of it is dressing sexy making someone desire you very much or simply get a boner for you... some of it is socializing and maybe doing that for them... it's not crime to like giving blowjobs... that where i come in i really do enjoy getting on my knees in a mini skirt and giving a blowjob... as they say no one has to know necessarily... i think more girls are enjoying giving than ever before and it's nothing to be ashamed... plus you can't get pregnant from giving a blowjob... also they make you feel happy no depression if your giving regular blowjobs.
Do you think it's because you've been socialized to like it? I'm curious, that's it. I just try to understand why I'm so different lol.
you can say that i was young when i started and asked often so i didn't have any reason not to... plus i always got lots of compliements for my blowjobs... and guys were always hard for me right away... also i loved wearing mini skirts always... that could have something to do with it too.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes, some do. Some see it as a sort of power thing since they have his most critical and sensitive appendage between their teeth and access to the family jewels.
Which is hilarious lol
It is another way of having a dick in her. For some women it is just their SO, for others, it is any guy. Just like guys like sucking on boobs and eating pussy.
It's not what I was asking...
It may not be what you meant to ask, but it is what you asked.
Nope.
I know girl that said that it makes her feel like a slut more than sex, and she is into BDSM.
Do you know why it makes her feel that way?
Not fully, but it likely has something to do with it being a less lady-like action than sex.
Why less lady-like?
A lady I dated gazillion years ago, loved sucking on my balls while she rubbed one out. She usually did it after we enjoyed each other multiple times. She called it her calming down orgasm.
But you were in a relationship with her or not?
Yes, I was. For about one month. It didn't work out...
It's cause they have the power and are in control.
Look up the island of Lesbos men would sail years to come to this island due to the women giving the best fellatio in history.
Hilarious 😂
You're confused.
Blowjob barbies are a real thing (don't Google it, if you're insecure, Mormon, or at work).
Some women really love the sensation of man meat down their throat. They prefer it over anal or conventional sex.
As for with strangers... I don't know what sheltered life you've had, if you've never seen or been to a gloryhole (don't Google it, if you're insecure, Mormon, or at work).
But it's usually where a master Blowjob Barbie can entertain the fetish - and get paid.
I'm not confused, just curious.
some girls like giving oral to their partner. because for them it is about controlling their partners. pleasure and ability to orgasm to a degree. not sure for hookups or strangers however.
A woman giving a blowjob has complete control over a guy, if she gets mad she can literally bite the penis off. Or cause scarring and severe pain.
Maybe but it's not the "typical view" lol
**looks down** Nope, I'm not a girl.
Some guys, I am one, really like giving cunnilingus, not just for her pleasure and reaction. It can be described as raunchy, nasty, sloppy, fragrant, tasty, noisy, musky, hairy, lippy and even a little pissy. Oh yeah. Don't forget wonderful.Perhaps fewer, but I suspect there are girls who get the same visceral pleasure from giving a blowjob. And every guy I can imagine (except gay) wish they knew one.
I'm wondering what they like about it.
They just like raunchy, I guess.
Not all heros wear capes. She should be celebrated.
To me a blowjob is really a power play. The one giving it has full control over the situation, how soon or not the male will or won't finish, and how good or not the experience is. Likewise I can see it being fun for the one giving the blowjob especially if they get really into creating a very hot experience. Cause eye contact, expressions, and words spoken can really enhance the experience. For some it is a challenge, like pushing themselves to their limits to see how far they can deepthroat, or how fast they can make their partner finish, and so on.
There are also some who recieve real pleasure from giving a blowjob, or while deepthroating. Asphyxiation is a common fetish, either in mild or extremes.
Yes and that's what I don't understand...
Which part?
The last part mostly.
They help put smiles on those guys and feel valued
I don't care It wasn't my question
Pardon? I didn't understand
You haven't answered my question
Because lots of women love to please their man that way and its turns them on knowing they have that kind of effect on a man.
I wasn't talking about these girls but the ones who do it to ONS, friends with benefits,...
I don't think that figures into it. Boyfriend, husband or friends with benefits, Its all the same to girls who love to give head.
Maybe it is. That's just weird...
Simply put, they are slaves of vice.
Some like giving pleasure to others
Altruism then?
Possibly, or the thought of someone feeling so much pleasure them could be gratifying from the sense of self worth
Or drinking the cum is like having someone they desire as part of them
just curiuos why dont u like blowjobs?
They're horny, and feel like that's the only way they can get off
Women don't get off from giving BJ...
many do especially if they're playing with themselves at the same time
That's so lame lol
Because they enjoy giving blowjobs. You enjoy what you enjoy and those women enjoy giving blowjobs. There is your answer
It's not enough for me. I want to understand. Problem is: no woman has answered. If anything, women should be the most concerned by this question but nothing... Annoying...
I hope some women can comment soon and let you know why
My wife she hates doing them
What do you think about that?
One once in awhile would be nice but I understand
Because empowered free women actually like sucking dick
It wasn't the question...
Well my wife tells me my mum tastes good so maybe that's it
XD cum not mum
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