Guys, Can having problems getting a hard on eventually become frustrating for you?

[Anonymous]

Recently, my boyfriend has been having this problem and I’m not sure why and it’s like you can tell he really wants to experience that intimacy with me but his body just won’t allow him to for some reason. It has gotten to the point where he will initiate. Things will get pretty heavy and by the time he’s ready to penetrate, he still isn’t aroused even though you can tell he is turned on but his penis just won’t react. He often will remove himself from off of me and push me away. Huffing and frustrated and I don’t know what to do or how to help him because I have no idea what the issue is especially considering it happened so suddenly. He didn’t use to have this problem.

[Coffemmmsoogood]

Tell him to drink fresh ginger daily and stop eating sweets, junk food , fast food, dairy products, if eating lots of meat slow down a bit. He needs a huge nug of black coffe every day , a mid size fresh ginger juice from the juicer every day. And last by some nutrilite vitamins.

[Quidthonian]

Yes. From my experience, I need to be mentally aroused first. I do get morning wood from time to time, so the physical system does work.
However, if I feel like masturbation, and my mind isn't in the right place, I just give up.

I think you should give him time. Support him. figure out if it is a problem of the body or the mind. If he does get occasional morning wood, then the mechanics are in order.

[socksguy]

Could be stress, or porn. Stress has a horrible effect on us, and if he's watching a lot of porn he's probably desensitized... it could also be a medical issue.

[nextdoorguy]

Well I can't answer that as it never happened to me yet. But what I know it depend on his age and depend on his health. Sometimes guys can get very horny and the erection doesn't work. He will need to see the doctor.

[Avicenna]

Its probably psychological, but have him eat lots of spinach.

[Asker]

Someone else mentioned that to me but I just wonder what is is psychologically that could possibly be bothering him. He usually opens up to me about everything but as far as this situation, he hasn’t He just gets frustrated and pushes me away.

[Tobi_Lerone]

If it happens too often then yeah it's really frustrating and this doesn't help either and you habe even nore problems on some point. Maybe it's because he feels very inescure or maybe is really nervous.

[genericname85]

Damn that sounds terrible. That would literally kill me emotionally.

I'd see a doctor about that...

[jeremy_09]

i have the opposite problem but this sounds like something he should see a doctor about, young guys should get hard instantly

[dudeinohio]

It can be extremely frustrating and make the problem worse. Best bet is to see a doctor.

[GreenGold1992]

I can imagine it would

[TienShenhan]

Never had that issue, maybe ask Mrs Sanders how she deals with this problem 😁

[In_Trance]

of course it could