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How soon after having a baby do you start liking/wanting sex again?

I had a baby about 7 weeks ago and am breastfeeding.

I have lost 99% of my interest in sex.

My husband had my "6 week" date on the calendar and was so excited we could have sex again. (at 4.5 weeks, we went on a date, he promised no sex, but after making out, I really really tried to give him oral, but when he came, it made me so sick! Plus it didn't help he was trying to finger me while he was holding my head down in his lap! Total messed up date.. I pushed him away and was really upset and almost scared.)

At the 6 Week Date, he had a romantic evening with a hot soak for me with my favorite sushi (unagi and california rolls), a hour long massage that ended with 2-3 Os from him massaging me and using my Hitachi back massager, 2-3 glasses of wine to relax me, and we had sex 2 times in about 4 hours.

The next morning, he tried to touch me and wanted sex again, and I was 100% NOT into it... told him to not touch me and I had to leave the room coz he didn't understand why I don't want sex? (I wanted it the night before after 2-3 glasses of wine and a Valium to relax me coz I really wanted to make him happy since he has waited 6 weeks.)

**How many of you women have experienced this lack of sex drive after having a baby?

**How long did it take you to get where you ACTUALLY wanted sex again?

I love my man a lot, am hurting him coz I don't want or like sex anymore (He told me I was his Sex Demon Goddess when I was prego!), but I just can't take it!!!
How soon after having a baby do you start liking/wanting sex again?
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