Is baby fever a real thing or just An expression?

[Godofmyownwurld]

Personally I love babies, as long as they're someone elses and i can just hold it for a minute and then give it back and go do whatever I want. I have never had any desire to grow a person inside me like a fleshy cloning pod and have them rip out my genitalia as it leaves me, and then spend night and day dealing with its puke and poop. Does any woman really get desperate and excited for that? Why? Logically the human species should have died out a long time ago because reproducing sounds like a fucking Saw movie🙅

[Berethor]

It's real, the best proof for that is women that go for sperm clinic, you can't say that they do that to appease their man, while men on the other hand are using a surrogate mothers more rarely. Baby fever and/or maternal instinct, a woman who don't have is femininity challenged.

[Gedaria]

True, it can be like that for a few months. But I would not change anything the wife , was not up front about things but when I look at my daughters now. They were worth all the down sides to it , there are so many up sides...

[Godofmyownwurld]

Did you ever worry they would hate you and grow up to be completely different than you wanted? Or that something you did unknowingly or forgot about would hurt them for the rest of their lives?

[Gedaria]

That's every parents delemer. But showing love and helping it does turn out right more than wrong...

[Godofmyownwurld]

I can barely handle my own dilemmas lol. The way i see it is the duggars had like 20 kids so that'll offset me not having any😂

[Apple1996]

Its definitely real. I have bad baby fever right now and I'm trying to get pregnant again. I already have two but I absolutely love the pregnancy and birthing process. Its not as bad as people make it seem

[Godofmyownwurld]

Why do you love it? How could that possibly be enjoyable?

[Apple1996]

It's just a amazing feeling to be able to grow a new life and bring it into the world. Plus the after birth high is amazing. Also a natural high everytime while breastfeeding. Newborns are just so addicting too like being able to take care of them is so fun! Toddler stage is terrible tho. My kids now are much more difficult then when they were babies. I miss those days

[Godofmyownwurld]

I mean, yeah getting my nipples sucked feels awesome but i have a girlfriend, don't really need a baby for that lol. I can see why after birth would be a high because the pain finally stops and you're drugged on pain killers and then get to hold your cute baby, but like you said now they're toddlers. They start annoying you and being disgusting and if anything goes wrong you're responsible 24/7. Then they're going to grow up and they could even not like you anymore. I dont like my parents, they're homophobes and delusional half the time and don't care about anything im interested in so it can happen that all that stress of raising a kid can be worthless. I dont personally want to deal with that potentially happening to me. It just feels like there's so much pressure like "you're a woman getting pregnant is your destiny, you'll get that baby fever soon." I dont want it, not happening. I'm absolutely happy for you though, and i hope your not cynical like i am lol

[Apple1996]

Haha babies sucking is a different feeling then adults sucking 😆 and the high is from loving the baby. Not cause the pain and or pain meds. But yeah it's fine if you dont want any. It is just a amazing experience in my opinion

[jahaims]

Real

[GreenGold1992]

I assume it's a real thing, but I've never seen it or experienced it myself.

[scooogy]

Yeah, this is why I prefer giving oral over having intercourse.

[Anonymous]

It's real lol.