How important is sex in your dating life on a scale of ten?

[anon1903]

Ten being extremely.

[MCheetah]

Probably a 2 to 4. I'm not getting any right now and I'm like the Sahara. So it's not that big of a deal to me. Besides, if I'm being honest, most sexual experiences I've ever had weren't that good. There's maybe one or two good times I've ever had sex, but I honestly can't even remember them, so they must not be that good. My hand seems to be better than a p*ssy and the woman it's attached to these days, so unless I found a woman who wasn't selfish, narcissitic, dumb, shallow, boring, a stereotypical Millennial, or a feminist/SJW these days, I'm probably not going to be dating anyway.

[Kaneki05]

0 And why? Cause sex ain't needed to love someone. If you cannot love someone and accept them without sex then... well i am not sure you would be able to love someone if they get an illness that stops them from doing the action or something. So it's not important it's a want but not important enough to be factor on why i would date and grow to love someone. I learnt this as kid from a game, and find it sad that someone really wouldn't be able to love someone without sex and would cheat on them if they were in position were they couldn't have sex or leave them or do something worse which he did...

[CurlyGirl42]

In my dating life it is pretty high, but I am also not dating to settle these days. Like at 8-9; does not need to be the most amazing sex as long as we can have fun together in general.

When I want to settle in a longterm thing the sex will be less important, maybe like 5. Can deal with sex getting more repetitive, less exciting and less frequent. Though, the physical aspect is super important to me; kissing, cuddling and showing affection with touch. This I would want daily.

[Cynicaldreamer]

4/10: having the companionship, loyalty, and a person I can be myself around and is there for me trumps sex.

Yeah, it is nice, but I rather have a decent man in my life I can rely on over a guy that just wants to be with me for my body and/or sex.

[MrOracle]

9+ for me. It's a big part of any healthy relationship, and one of the few things that I can't get without a partner, so, yeah, it's important.

[CourtneyJane]

On a scale from 1 to 10? 8.

[pierre7i]

Wowwww @CourtneyJane -- your profile pic is sooooo beautifully sexual ! It is you, right? 8/10 is a good answer because it leaves the other points of the scale for the romantic side of sexual lovemaking

[CourtneyJane]

@pierre7i Yep, that's my ass.

[pierre7i]

@CourtneyJane -- it's a very beautiful and verrry sexual ass 🍑

[pierre7i]

PS @CourtneyJane love the in-between thigh gap, it leads to sexual paradise I think !

[wingattebaby16]

9-10!

Sex and conversation are the most important parts of a dating relationship!!

[centerline]

10... I feel there is no explanation needed for this answer, because sex is good, and almost always better when shared with someone...

[KeziL]

2 or 3. As long as there is a good amount of physical touch, I don't need there to be actual sex. I will want to have kids someday so maybe they can like impregnate me but besides that idc.

[Fatherhere901]

I will say it is a solid "8". But, this is in the context that "sex", "being intimate" and "being affectionate" are not the same.
There must be affection in a relationship... AND... it can not me mistaken for "showing love for someone", or deprive the relationship from having "Intimate time".

If, by some morbid beliefs, someone in a relationship can not defer the differences from the 3, I say to them, it is a very hard "10", and they are the reason for the problems in the relationship.

[sensible27]

This.

[Fatherhere901]

@sensible27 Yes, it rates an "8" if you believe: "sex" (being nude and performing acts of procreation), "being intimate" (cuddling under a blanket, nude massages, Showering together, playing strip poker, etc), and "being affectionate" (hugs, kissing, holding hands, winking at, ETC.) ... are all separate forms of a relationship.

[ohshee]

It's a 9 or a ten ,, I'm an Empath so I feel you all ready when I'm in a relationship I want to feel all of you I want my energy to touch every part of you and make you feel something so deep and when making love fucking having sex is one of the fastest says to do that now in say all that above everything else is a 9 or ten to ,, it doesn't matter what it is

[connythebaker]

When I enter "negotiations" there are a couple of "tens", sex being one of them.
After I have begun lowering my standards the intercourse and getting-off part would drop to 3 or 4 while foreplay would be 6 or 7 and snuggling 8 to 10.
After all I want to be with a person I really like and share meaningful experiences with her. Fucking however is not particularly "meaningful" to me and chasing for very momentary neurotransmitter-kicks has not proven to yield any kind of lasting fulfillment.

[summiter]

I would say 9. Dating is fun but sex (safe sex) adds a whole fantastic dimension to it and it is fun to share an orgasm with someone.

[JackSmy]

Maybe 1 or 2? I find a Lady I love, and there are so many other things, so much more intimate, sensual things to share, and learn about each other, and get closer! Sex is something so many guys just want, because they cannot understand relationships, and have closeness, intimacy, outside of sex.
So many women want a closer, more personal, more intimate relationship, yet so few guys try to learn what that means, and focus on that!

[KiPanther]

9.. It's a whole physical connection between you and the person you're with. Especially with someone you're dating, there has to be a physically connection for me.

The other 1 that I left out of my 10/10 is for someone I love who has strong and REASONABLE religious views against it.

[lisaleib]

does it satisfy?

[EmmaMary]

8 - 9.
How about you?

[anon1903]

Same actually.

[EmmaMary]

@anon1903 Great minds certainly think alike.

[pierre7i]

If the dates develop into a romantic relationship, then sexual lovemaking rates 10/10 for me 🍑🍆

[theycallmedirt]

I've to say 8

[Avicenna]

Nine

[Jemini_Crocket]

8 I think. I do have a tendency to consider sex meaningless without love and love without sex is yikes kind of. Sex is a great fun way to get closer, emotionally and physically.

There are certain important factors in dating and I consider sex to be one of them.

[Bhavin2184]

5...

[sensible27]

I could 'survive' without it.

[anon1903]

I couldn't.

[sensible27]

Wonder what you're doing now, oh wait surviving without it.

[anon1903]

I regularly do it solo.

[sensible27]

How regular is regularly?

[anon1903]

Depends on how depressed I am.

[Reaperbot666]

• having a strong, healthy and active sex life with your partner.
• is the clue which holds the rest of the relationship together.
• but a good relationship needs 4 key pillars to last the test of time.
• physical attractive, mental attraction, emotional attraction and sexual attraction.
• which all need to remain in sync with each other.