Why is anal sex expected from women while men can get away from it easily (in heterosexual relationships that is) ?

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  • Erm... I think you're confusing "rape" with "consent" there, deary.

    I've never been one for "pegging" (don't Google it, if you're insecure, Mormon, or at work), but there are some men who like to receive as well as "give" shall we say. But they give consent and it may go ahead

    I'm pretty certain anal is not something most women would be expected to give. Mainly as few find it enjoyable, and it's not something quick and easy to clean up after either. Most people just see it on screen and forget it's staged. The women have to go through a week long non-bran diet, and an enema, before going on set. (don't Google it, if you're insecure, Mormon, or at work).

    • I wasn't talking about rape... Whatever.

  • Because they think that it puts them in the submissive, feminine/gay position and that's scary for some reason. They can't just ignore what people might think of it and just enjoy something like this.
    But women are supposed to be penetrated and submissive and it's just another hole so what's the difference? Right? No.
    If you expect your girl to do this for you, you should at least be open to giving your ass to her if she asks.

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  • While lots of guys want to do anal, I don't think it's "expected"

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  • How many women request anal sex and actually get rejected by their male partner?

  • Not expected in my 20 years of dating women... i been offered it but not my thing

  • Not sure I understand your question! Who is expecting anal sex? Him, or her? Today, and even Hetero couples, it isn't a 'given'!!
    I think if he wants to do anal, with her, she should get to do him first, with a strap on toy!! Just my opinion, and yeah, it came from a WOMAN!! :) :)

  • Sadomy. Girls who never do anal get more respect from me. :)

    • Why that?

    • Because it shows that she have some standards, even some porn stars are not doing anal.

    • True It's good if you want to get STDs lol

  • Don't be weird dude

  • Just preferences shrugs. Just cause you like giving don't mean you like taking.

  • I would never subject a to anal.

  • I don't expect it. I also never had anal sex in any way. ^^

  • Well I don't even know why anal sex is expected other than maybe because it's taboo to the person so it makes them hornier... Makes no sense to me a woman has a perfect orifice that's built for it it feels better to me at least... And she has a mouth that has a extraordinary tongue so I don't know what the anal attraction is personally other than it being taboo

    • Many women are tired to be considered like holes which must be filled up.

    • And I guess I can understand that there's a lot more to a woman than just sex anyway but as far as anal sex I just don't see the point unless she enjoys it I guess

  • One is superior than the other

    • Misogyny...

    • Misogyny? I ain't a misogynist

    • You are. #Breaking news

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  • cause men are not the ones being penetrated generally.

    • Anal penetration isn't common also...

    • yeah but women have no penises so they don't wanna penetrate men. gay men are anally penetrated all the time.

    • You don't know many different women then lol

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  • What do you mean? You want to buttfuck a guy for reciprocation?

    • Not especially. I simply don't understand why men expect it from women but aren't willing to do it themselves. That's very hypocritical and cowardish somehow...

    • So what makes it 'fair', in your opinion?

    • What makes it fair: 1. If a straight guy doesn't want anal sex for himself or his partner, fine. 2. If a straight guy does it because his partner wants to but he doesn't want it for himself, fine 3. if a straight guy doesn't stop asking anal from his partner but will never do it himself, then it's hypocritical. Some give the following explanation :"it hurts". So you really don't care about your partner feelings. Not OK at all...

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  • I have no idea, because that kind of thing is revolting and a deal-breaker for me.

    • What's a deal-breaker?

    • Something like anal sex is a deal-breaker time; it would make me immediately discontinue any relationship I had with a girl.

    • I see, but why is it a deal-breaker?

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  • So what your asking is why do heterosexual men want anal sex but not anal sex from a women who has a diblo on? if so then most men who are straight aren't gonna try it cause most men don't get off by it. Mostly women get off by it and to avoid pregnancy

    • Most women don't enjoy it. Many men who try it enjoy it a hell lot.

    • well if a women doesn't enjoy it then its not gonna happen so?

    • And? Women shouldn't be expected to do it. End of the story.

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  • You mean a girl using a stap on with the guy?

  • Not sure I am following your question all the way.

  • It is not expected. It's an extra bonus

  • How can a man have anal sex in a hetrosexual relationship?

    • 😂😂😂😂😂

    • Seriously! Lol

    • Everyone knows... At least, I thought lol.

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  • In heterosexual relationships, men penetrate and women get penetrated. That's how heterosexual sex works. Calling heterosexual men hypocrites because they are not the ones who get penetrated is kind of silly.

    • No, just a non sexist perspective. My bad lol.

    • What do you mean by a non sexist perspective? I'm not following you here.

  • I don't want to do it either way myself.

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