My Boyfriend Likes Anal Play?

So I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I recently found a toy in his room, for anal sex. I asked him about it and he was super embarrassed. What should I do next? What should he do next? I am really taken back by this, but it doesn't bother me that much.
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I recently asked him about wanting to explore anal sex more, but he declined out of embarrassment. I can't seem to crack his shell. I told him I'd be into it too.
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Most Helpful Guys

    • some girls enjoy anal sex preformed on them and some don't. however she won't know for sure until she tries it out for herself. but best to clean the area well and have not been sick recently before hand.
    • for a male anal play or prostate stimulation. is similar g-spot stimulation on a female. which can increase the pleasure and amount of cum released.
    • just like gentle massing or sucking on a males balls. has a similar effect to rubbing or sucking on a girls clit. which can increase the pleasure and amount of cum released.
  • I can't explain. But my guess is that he could be bi. Maybe he likes guys. I might be wrong. Maybe he is too embarrassed to tell u that he does masturbate and likes to use anal toy to boost his horniness. Maybe he just bought it and wanna try it and never tried it again as it was too painful. If you guy had relationship for long time he should be able to trust u and explain what that toy was for.

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  • all guys are into this so he shouldn't have been embarrassed. i don't prefer it myself but i'll do it if the guy likes it, and i would like to try anal sex one time

    • All guys? How do you know if you prefer it? I don't even know where to start.

    • well every guy i've met which is a pretty good sample

    • Strange. I guess it's just normal, but socially unaccepted. I think this response helped me a bit.

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  • Why are you taken aback by it? Are you ready for some anal play, probably leading to anal sex?

    • I don't know if I would like doing that. I'm bisexual and a switch, but anal play on that level is close to intimidating.

    • That's sort of the point. It's a very dominant thing for him to do. Are you prepared to submit to him sexually. It's hard to debate who's in control when you're getting fucked up the ass.

  • Someone call the fire Department for this flaming faggot.

    You need to leave ASAP

    • I think your vision is narrow and you undermine others for your insecurities.

    • I have no insecurities but nice try.

  • I am all American and i enjoy anal play. With a gal not a guy. Small dildoes and fingers inserted can make me cum very fast. During a BJ my gal knows if she's getting tired just finger my butthole because it will make me cum quick!!!

  • be patient and understanding... likely afraid you might think he is bi which he my or may not be but way too many ignorant people throw that shame on it... the prostate is the male g spot... i am sure he greats great pleasure from it... see if he'll talk with you about it... good luck and very cool you are open to learning

  • "I am really taken back by this" ... okay...

    "but it doesn't bother me that much." ... I'm confused by the first thing, then.

  • As in he is the one who likes to receive the anal?

    • Yeah

    • I know you'll day something like if you don't do it with a guy, it's not gay but I bet he has thought about it and wants to try real cock in some form or another. Like if he won't get fucked by a guy, he probably would by a tranny (who is just a feminine guy).

    • I would be down for a threesome with another guy, so that would be on the table. I don't know if he'd like that. I guess I should ask and hope he doesn't lie

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  • You can always slowly approach it in the bedroom, like maybe the next time you are giving him oral you let a finger wander back there. Or maybe you wear a butt plug in front of him to let him see you are digging it... Just roll with it slowly and you maybe harnessing up the strapon before you know it.

  • use it on him, you both may like that, just another kink in your sex life, enjoy it

    • I might. He has to be more open before I do that. He's too embarrassed.

    • Let him know that it is fine with you, what do you really feel about this

    • Willing to talk on pm if you like

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  • Anal stimulation can be satisfying.

  • he's gay and wants a guy's dick up his ass

  • What did he tell you?

    • He tried lying about it but I showed him undeniable proof. He can't admit he likes it, but I know he clearly does.

    • Hahaha, I bet he can’t hide it lol

    • I have a question for you but not here

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