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Do Dominant women make you uncomfortable?

Do Dominant women make you uncomfortable?
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clarification Dominant doesn't necessarily mean in just sex. I am a Dominant in RL too and people often get uncomfortable around me im wondering why
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  • Dominance if portrayed continually is not real dominance. Just weak people trying to be more than they are. I by nature am I dominant this came up in a profiling test that I had for a job role, and to be honest, most people that I have met that are supposed to be dominant I have barely noticed yet they have always noticed me. I hope the way in which I am explaining things makes sense. A scenario, the best way to define it is like this " the weak will always attack first" true dominance is the ability to take charge of a situation and the confidence to know that the outcome will be for betterment. Dominating is the fear of things going out of control so the individual will surround them themselves with lesser individuals to keep their status. In the animal kingdom, the perfect example is the relationship between lions and hyenas, the hyena's hunts in packs prey on the weak, and picks up the scraps kill their own, They will have some amount of fearlessness when facing lionesses, However, one Lion and they are gone what does that tell?

    • Best response on here, thank you. Most men think Dominant woman is like a teacher with a whip where that us not true. In RL I simply take charge with a healthy dose of fear. It doesn't mean im not afraid it just means it becomes a challenge rather than something to scare me off.

    • I not sure how this is as an answer although it does link back yo my earlier comment. the ladies which I have dated and reading through some of the comments make me think that I just don`t spend any time giving things much thought. lazy me. I grew up in a house with 5 men, went to school during the height of racism, and pretty much learned how not to get bullied very quickly. This is a quick story of none in my world anyway. long story short, there where 4 ethics allocated per year in a school that had 1500 none ethnics. One day I had bunked off to go to the chippy (not allowed ) when I came back after being caught bang to rights by a teacher, on entering the school grounds there were about 200 kids outside the school, shouting abuse at four ethnic kids. when they saw me coming they stopped. what my point is I learned that self control is far more powerful than lack of, The miss conception of alpha males is what in the higher thinking world are known as barn doors completely lack control, generally need to be bigger, etc to intimidate generally have hidden issues, drinking drugs, under all that puff and bravado a bit wet. and turn out to be needy. The true definition of alpha is quite the opposite they have a very sharp mind lack insecurities and generally skilled in most things logical mind confidence, artistic athletic. conversationalist and will look out for the rest of the group and capable. Alpha`s generally don`t know that they are. well co-ordinated etc they hold the characteristics which most people lack. I have met a few in my time as they really are far and few between.

    • The second part with the women that I have dated I find that they seem to put themselves into a role and seem to be happy doing so don`t why never asked. The comments that I have had are that they have learned to become comfortable in themselves. My persoanl thoughts are that most of the women i have met that think they know men are just a walking filing cabinet of bad experiences so just general low value (beta) not really worth the time or effort because they will just get on my nerves. dominate women yet to meet one. Men that that like to be dominated by women (beta) no challenge probably had things stuck in places to avoid bulling when younger. mutual respect the best of all because then that is the ability to really enjoy the ultimate in pleasure only even happened once

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  • I am a Dom right now. And will be for life. My wife is my sub, and she will be for life. This is more than just sex play, it's 24/7 D/s.

    However, some years back I did date a girl who I was sexually submissive too. It wasn't whips/chains etc. For around 18 months my cock was in a cock-cage. I couldn't orgasm without her permission, or even get hard for that matter. While I spent so much time between her legs bringing her to orgasm again, and again, and again...

    It was a different time in my life, and I don't regret the experience whatsoever. It gave me a unique perspective, and the rare time I did orgasm they were the best of my life.

    Dominant women don't make me uncomfortable at all. Though they are few and far between. I don't have one in my life at present. Which is a shame, because they certainly have a sexy edge to them ;)

    • Indeed we do

Most Helpful Girls

  • Weak men do feel uncomfortable around dominant women, I've noticed that.
    Oh well, I have found that I can easily dominate most dominant men, and convert them into submissive.
    Most men are secretly submissive, but they won't admit it ;)

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  • It would be pretty weird if I made myself uncomfortable.

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  • No but they're not my thing. I have found that I can easily dominate most dominant women. Most seem to dominate because men won't. I will and they generally submit happily.

    • 🤣🤣🤣

    • The fake dominant ones, yes, surely 😉.

    • Ikr 😆

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  • Sometimes, so you wonder why people are uncomfortable with a masculine woman?

    • No im not masculine i am Assertive and Dominant.

    • Sounds masculine to me, looks-wise you might be not masculine, but personally-wise you are.

      tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenAreTough

    • Lol is that so?

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  • No, it doesn't make me "uncomfortable", I'm just not into it romantically or sexually. Wouldn't necessarily stop me from being friends with her if she was cool though.

  • A bit, but not in the sense of being turned off. I mean by just being challenged by the person.

  • No I kind of like this^^

  • I measure them to detect their angle and act accordingly. Dominant women have impulses or a narrative that can be understood.

    • Well, well someone who seems to understand

  • Nope. Not at all. I don't see why i should feel uncomfortable.

    • Looking at your update, My girlfriend is rather dominant, it doesn't make me uncomfortable. A woman can be dominant as well as loving and respecting her partner.

    • Boom 😊 🙏

  • I am not uncomfortable around dominant women... Though I am a dominant male so we might clash at times but if we could agree to disagree then there would be no problems.

  • In RL I don't think so but I don't have the experience to know, being dominant is just one aspect of personality that can be expressed in a few ways, so I guess it depends.
    sexually I think I'd like that, but again I don't have the experience to know for sure.

    I think the problem is that most guys still believe in the old traditional gender roles that put men in the more dominant role, so they think they're not "man" enough if they're not dominant.

    • And they right, only emasculated men are submissive, while real men are dominant.

  • No and if they are like they're shy, I'll just smile, and act nicer lol

  • No. It's arousing.

    • Same answer. I remember I had a work meeting and my boss, who was a woman, was talking to her employees in an assertive manner. It was just her position, but her confidence and her attitude. I wanted to take her right then. I wouldn't because it's work but still. Doesn't mean I don't like women who are submissive.

    • I felt that

  • No, more so I make them fucking uncomfortable, just from the look I give them, unfazed and soul piercing. They see weakness in others but see unwavering assurance in me. 😂 Same with them so called alpha males.

    • Id love to see that soul piercing look😛

  • Nope it doesn’t bother me, why should it?

  • Don't know why they would. I just don't find them attractive.

  • No, I like that. I like switching roles, but if a woman is a natural dominant then it makes being submissive to her feel much more authentic.

  • yea sorta, depends what type of doms tho, doms that like to ride or lead during normal sex is normal and doesn't bother me but there's some weird shit out there with hancuffs and spanking and all that weird shit, i ever hear a girl is into that, its over lol

  • Nope. We either get along great or we do not and they wisely avoid me as I’ll eat them alive.

    • Now this could be taken in 2 or more ways elaborate if you like

    • Oh really? ... and what might those 2 or more ways be? I’ll gladly elaborate but now you have me wondering how your gray matter works.

    • Think on it and let me know

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  • When it's playtime, I certainly hope so - that's part of the fun! ;- )

  • that depends entirely on what that means. when i hear "dominant women", i associate that directly with the stereotypical dominatrix bdsm demeaning stuff. i know "dominant" doesn't only mean that but that's what i find people refer to, when they talk about dominant women.

  • No, I love them!!

    Getting married to one

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