Best response on here, thank you. Most men think Dominant woman is like a teacher with a whip where that us not true. In RL I simply take charge with a healthy dose of fear. It doesn't mean im not afraid it just means it becomes a challenge rather than something to scare me off.
I not sure how this is as an answer although it does link back yo my earlier comment. the ladies which I have dated and reading through some of the comments make me think that I just don`t spend any time giving things much thought. lazy me. I grew up in a house with 5 men, went to school during the height of racism, and pretty much learned how not to get bullied very quickly. This is a quick story of none in my world anyway. long story short, there where 4 ethics allocated per year in a school that had 1500 none ethnics. One day I had bunked off to go to the chippy (not allowed ) when I came back after being caught bang to rights by a teacher, on entering the school grounds there were about 200 kids outside the school, shouting abuse at four ethnic kids. when they saw me coming they stopped. what my point is I learned that self control is far more powerful than lack of, The miss conception of alpha males is what in the higher thinking world are known as barn doors completely lack control, generally need to be bigger, etc to intimidate generally have hidden issues, drinking drugs, under all that puff and bravado a bit wet. and turn out to be needy. The true definition of alpha is quite the opposite they have a very sharp mind lack insecurities and generally skilled in most things logical mind confidence, artistic athletic. conversationalist and will look out for the rest of the group and capable. Alpha`s generally don`t know that they are. well co-ordinated etc they hold the characteristics which most people lack. I have met a few in my time as they really are far and few between.
The second part with the women that I have dated I find that they seem to put themselves into a role and seem to be happy doing so don`t why never asked. The comments that I have had are that they have learned to become comfortable in themselves. My persoanl thoughts are that most of the women i have met that think they know men are just a walking filing cabinet of bad experiences so just general low value (beta) not really worth the time or effort because they will just get on my nerves. dominate women yet to meet one. Men that that like to be dominated by women (beta) no challenge probably had things stuck in places to avoid bulling when younger. mutual respect the best of all because then that is the ability to really enjoy the ultimate in pleasure only even happened once
you ask some pretty interesting question, of course, all of my answers are opinions that's all
Im not really sure if you want me to answer or not. The amount of hate that I receive from men for being able to take charge, having a better job or higher position etc. Has literally made the way I am today. Only weak men feel the need to attack women whether it is on line or in person simply because they feel the need to somehow show their dominance. When in fact they are simple minded roaches that deserve to be sprayed with Raid. If you are a Dominant male than act accordingly. Talking "smack" doesn't show anyone that you are a Dominant male it rather shows you are as insignificant as a pebble in one's shoe with the attitude of a frog in a well that doesn't have a slightest idea there is more to world.
Indeed we do
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The fake dominant ones, yes, surely 😉.
Men are stronger than women so it makes sense, but yea most "dominant women" are fake.
@Berethor No, they aren't fake. Being strong is even harder for women than it is for men. Stop your misogynistic clichés.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 dead ass funny boy.
And they right, only emasculated men are submissive, while real men are dominant.
Id love to see that soul piercing look😛
like I'd love a woman who likes to tease and dominate but she is going to come up against a brick wall at some point and she'll have to be able to deal with that and accept her place as the woman and mine as the man
I think there is a difference between dominant women and women who want to be men / act like men, I'm not attracted to the latter
That was a lot to read. Thank you for your input
Lol am I to understand that you've been offended and would rather not get into it?
Oh no but I am not Jewish. I also do not know my place. I am very hard headed and self sufficient. I am a Dominant in and out of bedroom and I like my men strong and driven. Smart and witty but when it comes to me they become putty in my hands. And will mind their manners with me or else they get what they didn't ask for. If I chose to bless a man with my presence he will obey me , he will submit and he will never forget me. So thank you for your opinion and I wish you blessed life.
Yah there's no shortage of men willing to become putty in a woman's hands... I find it appalling, personally, but I can see why a lady might like it. I think that's unnatural and sickening, once again, but consenting adults can do whatever they want. A woman may have power over me in that I love her and no one else, but that doesn't mean being putty in her hands. To be that kind of person requires a strong fear of loneliness I think... and what I'd refer to as 'real men' are not going to compromise their own resolve in fear of ending up alone. Really women shouldn't do it either inb4 someone goes on about the other side XD but yeah you should never be 'putty' in someone's hands, people need to stick up for themselves and stand their ground to have self respect./
Oh wow you have managed so many things in this response, I'm in awe 😳, men like you are the reason women become feminists. Thank you for your response but your utter presence make me 🤮. Now pls leave before I block you
So my final message and synopsis of my point was “people need to stick up for themselves to have self respect”If you have an issue with that statement then you aren’t just a ‘dominant’, you are a piece of trash
Why don’t you tackle me with an argument, miss dominant? Whats your problem with me? I thought doms weren’t afraid of confrontation? All so called ‘dominant’ women act the same around me, and it’s quite contrary to what they advertise. You are running away with your tail between your legs, you are shying away from confrontation. I look you in the eye and you look at the ground
Why should I waste my time and energy on someone who is insignificant to me?
You’ve already chosen to respond, time after time, so it’s not a question of that, it’s a question of whether or not you are going to acknowledge and respond to the subject matter or shy away from it with excuses. Deep down, you are just another sub, and you’ve proven that to me. Nothing to be ashamed of it’s only natural just stop being so dishonest and accept your true nature. Like most ‘dom’ women you can only larp that fantasy around pussified men.
Well, well someone who seems to understand
To me, I'm more of an "equal level" kind of person : I'm on the same level as you and you are on the same level as me. Being dominant means you think you are superior to me in some way and, for me to accept someone as a superior, they first need to earn my respect, to prove their worth and most people are not worthy in my opinion.
Well thought of. Thank you for your opinion
Looking at your update, My girlfriend is rather dominant, it doesn't make me uncomfortable. A woman can be dominant as well as loving and respecting her partner.
Boom 😊 🙏
Now this could be taken in 2 or more ways elaborate if you like
Oh really? ... and what might those 2 or more ways be? I’ll gladly elaborate but now you have me wondering how your gray matter works.
Think on it and let me know
Oh no. Spill it.
Kind courtesy and decorum make up my being.
🧐 this is my really look
Dominance isn't something you can just switch off. You either have it in you and act on it 24/7 or you pretend during the play and are infact a switch.
Demanding consent and safe words is very standard practice in the BDSM community.I'm a switch myself and like subbing but I *will* stand up for myself if I don't like something.
U guessed right🙃
Cool, it's rare to meet 😀
There is no split you do as i say or ill make u
If you ever do you will know
No im not masculine i am Assertive and Dominant.
Sounds masculine to me, looks-wise you might be not masculine, but personally-wise you are.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenAreTough
Lol is that so?
I mean personality-wise, and yes, feminine women are submissive, most women are submissive.
So in a way you just called me a dude
I didn't, you born as a woman, but you basically a tomboy without a short hair. :)
😳 my hair? My hair is butt long and I don't know about a tomboy bro I am quite the opposite 😅
You hair is butt long and you didn't post a picture of your hair length to brag about it? I mean not all women are able to grow such a long hair. Having a very long hair is feminine, but having a dominant personality is masculine, and I you saw only 4% of women are dominant, so it's even more rare than a butt long hair, even most women who play tough are actually aggressive submissive. How is your dominance come into play, why you think that you are dominant? and why you think that you are opposite of tomboy?tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/RapunzelHairtvtropes.org/.../AggressiveSubmissive
I am not here to be questioned silly boy
Are you seriously using TVTropes as sources?
I also used BDSM research as a source, and you one of the 25% of weak males didn't you?
BDSM research? XDTVTropes and BDSM...
And what are your sources? feminist nonsense? even most feminists are actually submissive.
Take it easy boys
He will submit
Will he now? Have you ever noticed how unsubmissive sex is HOT and rough?
No they always submit
... and if they don’t? ;)
(Whispers) I WILL MAKE THEM...
;) I’d like to see you try!
And being dominant outside of sex is called foreplay.
Love the answer
She can be more interested in different things that can arouse...
Well in that case, what is your name?
Who is asking?
LOL 😆 🤣 😂
Same answer. I remember I had a work meeting and my boss, who was a woman, was talking to her employees in an assertive manner. It was just her position, but her confidence and her attitude. I wanted to take her right then. I wouldn't because it's work but still. Doesn't mean I don't like women who are submissive.
I felt that
I didn't realise it
Now you have