My little sis ask me about blowjob should I tell her what they are?

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  • Educate her and tell her the truth and when she should and shouldn't give tbem your sister learns a lot fro. You either watching listerning and asking abd the questions she asks you will be more personal then she ccomfortable asking parents. teach her all the things you have had to learn the hard way and explain how and when things are suitable and unsuitable so she doesn't get the half truths or learn something but not about how and when to use otherwise she will get herself ib trouble and in situations she doesn't want to be in

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  • I would definitely set her down and tell her exactly what a Blowjob is. Here is the reason why:

    Obviously, someone in her environment, whether she heard about it from friends, heard it said on TV, or seen it somewhere on the Internet, she is now being exposed to the word AND is very curious.

    As the saying goes , “you can never unwind a clock”. she has been exposed to it and the only way to fix this is too direct which way Her thinking and beliefs go.

    Now the best thing is happened is that she's coming to you for the information. If you haven't already realized, this means that she trust your opinion and that you are the only one she is confiding in. However you handle this situation, keep that in mind. You definitely don't wanna lose her trust on this or she will never come back to you about anything. Good luck, being the Big Sister

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  • I say tell her, but make it sound gross.

    "you put a guy's penis in your mouth and hope he is the kind of guy that showers every morning. if he's not it will taste really gross like a sweaty armpit, but then depending if he cares for you or not he'll get mad and say mean things at you if you stop. Only give a blowjob to someone who wants to be clean for you and who likes you. If he cares for you, he will let you stop at any point and ask if you are okay. Most guys won't though."

    • I would definitely advise against this cause a she should be allowed to form her own opinions based upon non- influenced information!

  • Yeah, better she learn from you then somewhere else

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  • How old is she?

  • depends on how old she is, how mature, and if she has had the Birds and Bees talk yet..

    I would ask her why she wants to know and who did she hear about it from?

  • It all depends on how old she is. If she isn't at least in middle school yet, then do not tell her. But if she is you can tell her about it and what sex is (I'd assume she'd be 12 or 13). I know I didn't learn what sex was until I was 14, but my sister taught me because I wasn't taught in school yet (it'd be another year before we had sex ed in health).

  • Yes tell her. It is always best to be open about all these natural and normal things. Depending upon her age just adjust the amount of information/detail and remember to explain in the context of relationships.

  • How old is your sister? If she's younger than 13.. then nah she don't need to know that just yet.

  • It really depends on her age, maturity.
    What have you decided to do?

  • maybe hold off on that one, but depends on their age...

    if they are learning about sex ed though then be tactful about it...

  • Yes you should

  • Honestly it dont matter as she can find out elsewhere even if u said no

    • Okay.

  • Should of just put her age in the question rather than making everyone ask lol. But at 13 it's alright just tell her surprised school sex education haven't yet

  • Sure. Be open, without use of slang or pornographic nomenclature. She's never too young too hear about the mechanical functionality of the human body, and if you embrace the perspective my mother taught me when I was young, that making your feel good is about love and mutual respect, than tell her that when the time is right for her too explore those feelings in great3 detail, and if you feel your mature enough too have that conversation with her, than you will have more too say on the subject when the time comes. Double entendre unintentional.

  • Better you then a stranger... Better your mom then you?

  • I wozld say this depends on her age. If you think she is old enough to know why not?

    • She 13 I think she old enough

    • Okay I mean 13 is at least very young. But maybe it's better if you tell her about bj. I mean there many more options to figure it out. And since you her sister you can also tell her that she shouldn't that now

    • Okay i will

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  • What is her age?

  • Depends how little

  • Depends how old she is to be honest

  • Would you rather they google it or find out from someone else. I find it better if they learn from family members cause then you cab talk about other stuff around that.

  • Ofcourse, take a lead to teach sex education.

  • I'd tell her. Got to watch over your siblings

  • Ofcourse you should
    You should educate her n guide her n be there for her

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