If the man in the relationship thinks it's ok to buy sex chats and exchange nudes with women online, is it ok for the woman to sell them? He says it makes him feel sexy and I want to feel sexy too. We have a good sex life but he likes the online stuff and it bothers me but he won't stop so I'm thinking of giving into the "if you can't beat him. Join him" mindset. It just might be nice to think that SOMEONE likes to jack off thinking of ME for once.