If women supposedly like sex as much as men do, why is it so hard for the everyday guy to get laid?

[Anonymous]

• If women supposedly like sex as much as men do, why is it so hard for the everyday guy to get laid?
• Why do so few women ever initiate sexual interest with a guy?
• Why do the women who show an interest in sex get divided into as simple as 1% of the female sex workers and 'nympo freaks' out there, and the 99% of the rest of women?
• Why is the sex industry 99% female (as in, caters almost exclusively to men) if women desire sex as much as men do?
• Why do so few modern women ever experience frequent feelings of loneliness and/or horniness, if ever?
• Why are incels a thing? Why are female incels something that literally doesn't/cannot exist? (Only counting actual biological females.)

I remember someone I knew (female) said "Women enjoy sex like a fine wine. Men indulge in sex like drinking water."

I don't think, believe, or feel most women really enjoy sex too often, is what I'm saying. I'd argue the male libido is 50 to 100 times stronger than the female libido. Some men will crawl through broken glass just to be with a woman, while the "average woman" nowadays rarely, if ever, expresses feelings of loneliness or wanting to be with a guy.

[Bandit74]

I think men on average have higher sex drives and are open to casual sex with a wider range of the female population.

So for example the average guy might find 40-50% of women fuckable based on appearance alone while the average woman might only find 20% of men fuckable based on appearance alone.

For relationships it might be more evenly split but casual sex is likely skewed more towards the most attractive guys getting disproportionately more sex while just about any woman can easily find a guy of her attractive or higher to hookup with whenever she wants.

[Anonymous]

Two reasons in my opinion.
1. It's doesn't change the pick of the litter style of dating women are privileged with having. So because women get so many options, they'll just fuck the best guy, so one dude ends up fucking a ton of girls while others don't. It's like how lions have harems.
2. A lot of women feel they need to get something else out of it otherwise they feel used. Whether it be emotional validation (relationships) or some sort of materialistic gain. They have a hard time just having plain old sex

[PrudentGuy]

1) I'll stay on the opinion that women like sex as much as men do.

2) but women are more "choosey" because ultimately, they are the one carrying the baby.

3) and hence their biggest worry with promiscuous sex is, "what if" the guy (irresponsibly) leaves?

4) men apparently don't have pregnancy worries and many view condoms as miracle protection that works 100% until it breaks...

Hence, if pregnany concerns puts women at say -3 for desiribg sex, men is at +3. Numerically, the gap is not 3, but 6.

Perhaps this is the value you're looking at.

PS: a woman in love actually gives her man a lot of sex, even drowning him with it.

[Mystic_Nova]

Because women have more to losethan men do, when it comes to sex.

[Petra150]

Because we women a shallow and show double standards so I understand why guys are frustrated as hell

[JackSmy]

Just going out on a limb, here, and paraphrasing what some women have told me:
"MEN AND WOMEN SEE SEX DIFFERENTLY!!!"
Guys don't seem to understand, and don't seem to take the TIME TO LISTEN TO WOMEN, about what they want, need, and love!!
Also, women don't understand why guys just want SEX, so much!
Maybe I am wrong, and only basing this on some that I have known, and some close female friends.

[iambae]

It's not you can get laid everyday with various girls. You have to be in the right spot at the right times. It's less about, what you say and not even about you most of the time.

It's a numbers game and they out number us so play the odds.

[Twalli]

Women usually want something more than just sex. Visual porn is catered almost entirely for men, because we get more excited by the act of sex than women. Romances are catered almost exclusively to women because they like the emotions surrounding sex more.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

They are the ones who get pregnant during sex and they have more sex toys than men

[In_Trance]

just because they like it doesn't mean they'll hand it out to everyone

[SilverRain92]

I don't know where you got your statistics from. It looks weird for me.

I guess that girls want to have sex as much as guys do but only with someone they like, not with a random acquaintance aka "everyday guy"

[B2281]

Just because many women may love sex doesn't mean that they want just anyone.

[Anonymous]

Women have the power to pick and choose... so the majority of them pick a small percentage of males.