Body Shaming Bully, Have you ever been bully about your body type, weight and height before?

[Luna1998]

You are fat, too short, you look like a balloon, you will never be able to wear sexy clothes, i can't imagine to be turn on by looking at you.

I have been critiqued about my body since I can remember lol, first i was too small and weak, then i over grown my friends in the same age, and im considered bigger than the overall women around me. I was bullied since grade 1 until today lol to the point that those words that make fun of become common and normal for me.
My friends always greet me with words like " hey, how have you been? Did you gain weight?" , "Oh you look thinner?, just a little bit but yeah, keep going!", etc. Whether through social media nor directly in a face to face conversation, I don't take those jokes seriously of course ( I tried to be cool and took it well ) and I knew that sometimes they didn't mean it to hurt me, since the body shaming in Asia is so common, no one make a fuss about it, if you started to bring the drama up, then that where the bully would really start.

I think i grew up used to all the bully about my shape and size, that it those words have been rooting deep inside me and make me become who I am today. Always insecure and seek out comments. Do you think its normal to be body shame? Playing it cool is the only way out? Have you ever consider yourself not worth it for anyone? ( i always consider myself not worth it to be love or like lol)

[SjE78]

been bullied most my life, bullies usually dont care what they are using against anyone, and will use everything and anything to throw at their victims...
but been bullied about

my appearance
my parents
family
way i spoke
the fact my hair was a very light blonde (even though another few kids in the same year were same blonde)
cos i have blue eyes
cos i wouldn't disrespect anyone

hell that didn't just stay in school either, parents were major bullies, since i left school some even tried it then...
however back in school the bullying stopped for a few months as i broke a bully's nose, and another bully was hospitalised for a month after i became tired of their BS, and also cos my father said that if i didn't fight back with them he would beat me again

[Red_Arrow]

Actually, you are luckier than many people. Many have mental disorders that they can do nothing about. Many have diseases that they cannot overcome, like cancer. Many have learning difficulties. But weight is actually something you can do something about. You can lose weight. You can build up muscles. People should not shame you, but if they continue, you can work at changing yourself.
Also, you seem to think you are less appealing than you are. You have a cute face (really, very cute!). Your body actually is sexy. Many guys on here have expressed liking your looks. In addition, your personality is very likable! I wish I could know you in real life, not just on here.
You have many friends on here. Hopefully you will learn to make those who are around you feel the same.

[Red_Arrow]

Thank you for MHGuy. 😀😘

[MissLlyn]

Body shaming is a no go. Doesn't always work and almost lead me to an eating disorder.

Now I don't care and don't let words dictate how I should feel.

[Luna1998]

Im sorry about what you have gone through, but im haply for you today!

[AaronKrieger]

I've been bullied and targeted and I've also done the same too others before. It's just something you endure and move on with your life. For me I like myself how I am and if someone else insults me I don't really care.

[TadCurious]

I'm sorry you were bullied about your body. I never had to go through that. There's nothing wrong with your being bigger than other girls. You have a beautiful body.

[JosyJosy]

Nopes, I shamed myself haha

[chriscdi]

no people try me like that cause they know whats up

[worldscolide]

through my entire childhood.. My weight and the fact that i was smarter than everyone else.. I hate that..

[latarnd]

I've never been bullied for my body directly. But I have felt like I wasn't good looking enough definitely. It's just something you gotta realize doesn't really matter what other people think about. If you're happy with yourself and being healthy thats all that matters.

[naraku]

I think everyone gets some rude or nasty comments. But they're not worth your time of day.
I figure it's because something is not good in there world so they take it out on someone else. They don't have the ability to deal with things better.

I might know you but your photos are great!
I hope you learn to deal with yourself better and not pay attention to gutless loser's.

[Mr_Peterson]

I have a big bum, big feet, a fat belly and thick legs. I also have red hair and freckles. I do feel insecure sometimes as I am conscious of these things.

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah in middle school and high school.

[jasco]

Well bullying and jerks happen ever and yes i have been and its a part of why people change and change most of the time is good so yes you should change so people won't be as mean to you

[TallAnon]

Surprisingly not, but being 6'7 and quite intimidating, that might make sense.

[bklynbadboy1]

Nope I was always the biggest guy in my class and I played sports so I was really popular

[andy530]

You are so gorgeous omg! Yeah I have had my mother make some comments about my body that are unappreciated

[NortyRich]

I have been since 12 at school. .. and have been so discussed with my self recently

[Tstrbrainer]

Body shaming is bad.
People have teased me also.

You look really pretty to me 😘😘😘

[jirwin7979]

almost all the time

[cootjuh]

Yeah fat belly. Weird feet. Flat ass. Thick thighs. Curved dick. Weird nose and ears. Etc etc

[gandolph3]

Why would anyone shame you, you sre hot

[banzaibill]

Yep, 180 cm, 57kg 25yo guy

[Anonymous]

Been shamed about my small dick