Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?

If you have larger than average, or even average breasts, have you ever been referred to as LEWD or GROSS or put down in some way for a body part you had no choice over?

I was appalled to see a post by a female on this site who was asking for some example pictures of something that had to do with girls tops, or something, but then said..."don't post any pictures of girls with big boobs because that is lewd!"

OMG!! ... how could anyone say such a thing? ... isn't that a put down of every girl that has big boobs? ... like they are suppose to hide themselves and feel ashamed because of the size of their breasts?

This made me so upset that I am still upset now thinking about it.

Even if a girl has larger than average boobs, why would that position her for ridicule? ... she was born that way for God's sake! ... why should she be told to go hide herself?
I couldnt help what God gave me
I couldn't help what God gave me
Am I the only one that feels this way?

I know some girls wish theirs were smaller and some wish theirs were bigger, but no one should be ashamed of their breasts no matter how big or how small they are... am I wrong to feel that way?

What is the world coming to when we have to hide ourselves now and are told that we are disgusting and need to hide our boobs?

Please share your feelings and/or experiences with this... PLEASE?
Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
A. YES! I have had disparaging remarks made about my breasts by others before
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Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
B. Yes, I have heard others being critisized merely due to the size of their breasts, even being made fun of because of it
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Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
C. No, I have never heard of any girl ever being belittled because she had large breasts which would be so wrong!
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Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
D. No, but I have been critsized for having breasts that are too small
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Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
E. Yes, girls with large breasts are lewd and disgusting unless they wear super loose baggy clothing so no one can tell what size breasts they have!
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Why are girls with big breasts considered lewd? ... have you ever experienced that put down?
F. OTHER, see my comments below or just open the "Large Breasted Girl" survey
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  • I suppose it's all about presentation.
    I mean it is a little extreme if you're walking down the street in a white tank top that's practically see through and braless or petal-less.
    if you're in an adult setting or somewhere where nudity is acceptable then that's different but out in public for the whole world to see and wearing something quite revealing to the extent where there is nothing left to the imagination yes that is taking it a bit too far
    I believe women can still be sexy wearing either non revealing clothing or revealing clothing that still maintains a touch of modesty. Its a matter of finding balance of showing off just enough to hint at what you have to offer while still maintaining a little mystery.

    As far as women being seen as lewd I think it has something to do perhaps with people being too narrow minded and quick to make assumptions.

    Sometimes people may think poorly about a woman with overly large breasts depending on two factors.

    One is the woman naturally well endowed or did the woman go out of her way to get something larger than a double d or an E. Honestly this shouldn't matter but to some it does.

    Then there are the cruelest type of people who just throw any woman into the bashing pot if her breasts are too big no matter whether they're natural or because she chose them to be that way.

    I personally believe anything bigger than double D or an e that is not natural is rather unattractive. Am I going to go out of my way to approach a woman with excessive implants and directly insult her because of her choice?

    Nope! its her choice she has a right to feel beautiful however she chooses to feel beautiful just like I have a right to say what I do or do not find beautiful.

    it would be stupid to judge a woman solely base on what she finds beautiful on herself (referring to women with obvious implants) Her presentation of herself, her behavior her mentality personality should all be calculated together before making any sort of judgement.

    It would be even more stupid to judge a woman who's naturally big solely base on the size of her breast. Women who are naturally big cannot help being that size. Some love it And sadly some women don't even like it themselves. We definitely shouldn't be judging her for something that she could not help having. Her presentation of herself, her behavior her mentality personality should all be calculated together as well before making any sort of judgement.

    However at the end of the day it doesn't matter you're always going to find someone who has an opinion that's not the same as yours and you're always going to find people who are hateful and others who are indifferent or accepting.

    It really doesn't matter when it comes to breast size there's always going to be an opinion on nearly non-existent small medium large or excessive breast. No matter what category a woman falls into there is bound to be an opinion out there about it.

    As women we just have to keep our chins up.

    • OMG! ... you are taking all the GOLD STARS again Ms Kitty! ... lol

    • thanks @laurieluvsit It took me some time to think about it🤔 good insightful question raised some awareness for me how no matter what size we are someone is always gonna say something.

    • Yes, so true :(

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  • I used to have 37 G breast... heavy as hell!! And they were the body part I had no choice but to have them, I was born with them knockers! I was always told I was gross looking bc i my breast took over my the attention that I wasn't aiming to get from the public. Guys even weren't so much attracted to me bc tbey though to much breast weren't their thing, and always broke my sexieness into places. Now looking back I couldn't careless about my breast, but for health reasons I got them reduced and now i am a 34 B size, it feels like freedom not having to worry about my back.

    • I am so glad you are happy now and feeling better about yourself :)

    • Very well-said! I'm glad you're finally comfortable with yourself!

    • @Guardian45 thank you, and yes very content and I can wear bikinis now, as before I couldnt, tooo heavy...

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  • People put down girls with big boobs and small boobs. Everyone gets puts down for their size from some people in their lifetime. You gotta just push through it. Girls can’t control how small they are, I think people need to be more sympathetic for small boobs more so than big.
    Also I feel the person who said that was referring to girls with fake breasts that look really bad.

  • Haters already gonna hate. . Whether big boobs, little boobs, big ass, little ass, etc., some people just aren't happy unless they putting someone else down.. Some 24 year old user told me In just a unattractive almost 50 jealous cunt of younger women who post their nudes online cuz I wish I had the body to... Did that bother me? Did the insult bother me, hell no not at all... Other then sad to see so many younger people with no manners these days...

    • Who was that dickhead who said that? If I didn't have work in the morning I'd be up for a fight! lol

    • @AndrewMG some dumb young female I removed the reply because these young people need to learn manners... I don't get upset by the shit but others might... That's what's not okay with people thinking they could talk they way.. And yeah bet she's wouldn't have never to say that to someone's face...

    • I know there are so many people that are emboldened to be rude when they can hide behind their computer screen and insult people, we all know none of them would have the guts to do that face to face except the real crazies and those are the ones that are too busy out rioting anyway. I am sorry that any would ever talk to you like that :(

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  • I can't say I've experienced this myself... Or should I say... I've never thought of big boobs being like that...

    But if I had to guess it's probably a mixture of spite/jealousy... And how girls with bigger boobs are over sexualized.

    There a natural thing and often not chosen to be that size. But I can see how boobs are sexual and bigger boobs are more displayed as a sexual thing over smaller boobs.

    I also know that there are girls that use boob size as a focus or ridicule... Smaller ones mean your still a little girl or larger ones mean your a cow or hussy... Not that I agree but stuff like that...

    So I can easily see the jump from those to saying that larger boobs are lewd.

    Again... Not that I agree... But that's the connection that I see

  • I've had other women insult me for having slightly above-average sized breasts. I've been called "Big Boobs" more than a handful of times, usually by the snarky feminist types with boyish figures, but I never let it bother me. Let them be jealous.

    • Good for you! :)

  • My boobs are bigger than i’d prefer but i dont go around advertising em unless im looking for attention. Most of the time i just dont feel comfortable showing cleavage and rather wear a crewneck. But i dont see how its any worse then the daisy duke wearing girls with their ass cheeks out... or the guys who wear those exercise shirts that dont cover their sides and nipples

  • Big boobs are not necessarily lewd, it is in the way they are displayed. They can be displayed the same as smaller breasts, or they can be displayed in an almost falling out of their top way which may be considered lewd to some. When you dress in a "look at me, look at my big boobs!" type way because you need attention or validation, then I would define that as lewd and crude.

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  • So devil advocate here. All these pics are of breast enhancements and want to show them off, so yes I would say they are trying to draw attention to their breasts. But natural bigger chested girls may try to do the same. I think some of these are a bit over the top but I mean mine are slightly larger than average and I dont have to wear anything revealing usually and have someone comment on them.

  • I don't think anyone's chest should be made fun of or called lewd. Whether the woman is flat, itty bitty, small, medium, or big chested. The only reason why some people call a bigger chest lewd is because they perceive it as more sexual (since that's what porn and the media portrays them as). I mean, a small chest with a micro bikini top would probably still be just as sexual wouldn't it? Or do you think people would say no just because of size? Kind of makes me question how people would see that honestly.

    • That would be a good question Ms PBJ... go ahead and ask it :)

  • I have the same attitude as you, Laurie. I can't imagine why anyone would say naturally large breasts are lewd. I hate when people say things to hurt women's self confidence. Some people suck.
    I understand that really large breasts have their downsides without being made to feel bad about them. They can get in the way and they are hard on the back. But the upside is, guys like boobs and some guys love really big ones.
    Walk proud, ladies. Losers and prudes can eat shit.

    • @lliamHow are we a prude if we don't think it is proper to be exposing 95% of your breast by clothes you are wearing? It is not the large breast itself, but just the way it is thrown out there in your face. To me that is neither sexy or attractive.

    • @Daniela1982, Laurie's question didn't mention one thing about "display" or 95% of breast exposed. And the only thing displayed in some of her photos was cleavage. Most of the girls were completely covered. I see nothing wrong with cleavage or bikini tops.

    • I don't know what your computer clarity is but I could see areola on pic C through her thin white top. I'll say it again, that is neither classy or attractive, just sexual posturing.

  • I have very large breasts. And always get compliments on them. Some even said they would use them as a pillow lol.

  • Either they’re just jealous or conservative.
    Girls in the past has put me down, randomly compare how they’re sexier than me, or shame me about it even though Im busy minding my own business and naturally don’t try to show it off while a lot of girls does tried esp smaller ones I noticed. But nowadays, I don’t really care, I just do what I want rather I wanna show it off or not. Own what you have 😊

    • Yes!

  • Yess girls would pick on me and say there weird but the guys love em sooo

  • Some women have unproportionally extra large breasts and have been made fun of. That's unfortunate and I sometimes think we have to be considerate about their feelings. Meanwhile, some women have very large breasts and flaunt them in a vulgar manner that it already feels disgusting & offensive. I wouldn't criticize them for having big breasts. I might have an unfavorable opinion about their lewd conduct.

  • Personally I love them no matter shape and size.
    As far as lewd goes. Well if they're natural then no I don't think it's lewd since she didn't chose them.

    But a fake set of boobs made out to be like two giant pillows does speak something about the person carrying them. No one gets a whole surgery done to make their breasts into bowling balls, only to flaunt them in the covent as a servant of the lord.
    She's obviously looking for sexual attention

    • So if she has big fake ones you have the right to objectify her? just kidding xD There is one saying: It's a man's job to respect women but it's a woman's job to give him something to respect.

    • I never objectify. But I'm not oblivious either. Let's face it some women don't get offended, in fact they are flattered and those are usually the ones who go get big plastic tits

    • True. And also in a way they decide if they wanna be objectified or not. At least they could influence on it a bit.

  • I didn't know that actually. My boyfriend told me he wanted me to get mine made bigger. He's going to arrange a date for the surgery in his vacation.

  • Well, I'm definitely 'bigger' (38DD), and I'm sure I've heard every line in the book about being a slut just because I've got big boobs, LOL !! I truly could care less though.

    In reality - I don't think there's any correlation at all between bust size and lewdness - I know plenty of women with little to no bust size at all who are what most might consider 'promiscuous' , and I know plenty of women who are quite well endowed who by anyone's definition would be considered conservative. I think the stereotype that big busted women are lewd probably comes from how we are portrayed in movies, etc. - you never see a stripper in a movie with small breasts, right :-)

  • Lewd? huh? I mean there's big boobs... then there's obscene boobs.

  • Well, most of the time when women are depicted in a sexual situation, it's always women with larger breasts. And hence most men also prefer large breast. But as years have gone by, having large breast has become lewd because most men and sometimes women have always seen larger breasts being a symbol of sex, in a manner. So whenever, a lady with above the average breasts even walk around, men start thinking of it as lewd thing. People always sexualize bigger breasts and hence making it into a symbol of sex. Not realizing that making it into a sex symbol is causing more problems to women. Also, people should start focusing more on other breast types. I think it's injustice to not notice other smaller sizes of breast.

  • A friend of mine wore the exact same outfit as I wore the day before, she got written up for dress code violation and i didn't because I'm smaller and she's very busty and curvy. If you're well endowed highschool is just fucking bullshit. More so than normal. Like you have to show up in a burkha just to not get written up and accused of trying to distract boys. Its so stupid.

  • Before my BR two years ago, from the age of ten it was a constant battle to try and ignore all the disgusting, filthy and lewd remarks I would receive, I was very fortunate indeed in having very loving and supportive parents, and a few close girlfriends who somehow managed to help get me through all those dark, miserable and very upsetting times, days and nightmares.
    My deepest love and understanding goes out to all those girls/women who have, or who are still suffering this curse that nature has dished out.

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