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What's the appeal of hiring a pro dominatrix for those into BDSM? Doesn't it kill the "dominant vibe" if you pay her to do what YOU want?

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  • I would assume that it would be a great experience for them and wouldn't matter much that they paid. After all, i pay to have a proffesional chef make me food and it doesn't take away from the quality or flavor. I am guessing the same would be true of the dominatrix, as a professional with much experience, she would be able to privide enough "quality" that you would not even think about the fact you are paying her.

    • I don't think you can compare cooking with human relationships...

    • It wouldn't be a relationship though, just a service that has been paid for. The quality of the physical service from a "professional", i hope would be satisfactory enough to make the mind forget about paying to have the service done. The mind is after all an easy thing for the owner to fool, we tell ourselves lies all the time.

  • I'm submissive but not a lifestyle one and for me yes it would. The best is meeting a girl starting to fool around and just have it happen naturally omg when it does it is amazing

    • You're a hobbyist. That's probably the type of sub guys who like it the most. Just my opinion ofc.

    • My wholeheartedly agree

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  • I don't think that pro dominatrix women are genuinely dominant, they are payed to behave like that, it's just a job for them, like acting, singing or modeling.
    I believe that normal guys prefer naturally dominant girls, not BDSM.
    Only total perverts like it when someone is penetrating them with a strap-on.

    • I don't believe pro are dominant either. Though, I don't think wanting to be penetrated by a sex toy is weirder than being penetrated in the anus by a penis. If anything, you don't risk to catch STDs if the toy isn't used by anyone else...

    • Well, anus is not a sex organ, that's what makes it weird if someone wants to be penetrated there.

    • I agree. But the mouth isn't either then... Do you think blowjobs are a bad thing too?

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  • You tell them they I'll pay you to dominate me... BUT I won't take anything up the ass... They then get you to do everything except that even if it pushes your comfort zone until you chicken out of times up.

    • That's it You don't get to be more specific about what you want?

    • That's right which is why they are "in charge"

    • It's not what I've read but... Ok

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  • Some of them probably spin it as a findom thing. I suspect they do indeed want the dominatrix to take the lead rather then them giving instructions all the time.

  • I agree, I do not fault them for trying to earn money and make a living, but it is so much better having a dominant that has a relationship with you and genuinely enjoys bending you to her will and pushing your limits instead of it being a service or transaction where the submissive is just topping from the bottom.

  • Not necessarily

    • What?

    • I said "not necessarily" are you hard of hearing or something?

    • It's written so I don't have to "hear it" anyway. I just don't understand what you mean but whatever...

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  • Luckily I have a super dominant girlfriend and I'm really happy since I'm a submissive guy. She hates being submissive now and I hate being dominant now. Win win situation for both of us

    • You've never hired a pro?

    • Never.

    • Good 👍🏻

  • At least for me... the appeal is to have a semi real experience. I've considered it only because the girls I meet aren't super dom

    • But it's not real at all lol. You're basically telling her what to do...

    • Well its not 100% fake... usually you just say "this is what I won't do" and they take it from there

    • Obviously, jut like sex with prostitutes is still sex. There's just no real bonding or intimacy involved. It's just shallow.

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