Guys, What makes a guy stop having sex for a couple of seconds in the middle of us having sex?

So we were obviously having sex and literally just randomly he stops moving and like takes it out. and I’m like you good? And he just says yep and just like stands there not doing anything staring into like nothingness. we wait there for like 10 more seconds and then he continues on Like nothing happened?
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  • Either he stopping him self cumming or its the new style he seen from watching porn it called buffering lol. bit weird but nothing to freak out about i dont think just hope its not when your about to cum but i would suspect its to stop himself cumming

  • I'm guessing he's being very considerate and avoiding cumming too soon.

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  • Only he has the answer. My first impulse is that he is that he is delaying ejaculation.
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  • He is trying to pace him self... if he had kept going then he prob would have cum... sure he probably shouldn't have just done nothing he should have maybe started fingering or kissing you or something.. but yeah... it seems not a lot of guys bother to do that from what i read on here

  • He is trying not to cum too soon.

  • I'd say this will no longer happen if you put up a big picture of your parents looking very angry on the wall that he is facing while you have sex. At least it will take him maximum one second of looking at the wall to avoid coming early.

  • I have paused if I am going to cum and it is still too early, she hasn't finished. It lets me keep going longer.

  • He ejaculated or perhaps had a seizure of maybe even a mild heart attack.

  • Maybe he edges himself to not cum too quick. I don't see any other reasons at least. 🤔

  • He's avoiding cumming too soon.

  • If i had to guess, maybe edging. Sometimes during sex it can feel like the women is really rushing or trying to make you finish as fast as possible and we hace to literally stop stimulation entirely to avoid finishing early.

  • He was probably getting to cum and he did not want to cum in you or was not ready to cum. This is a way to last longer for the woman to catch up.

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