Have you ever had a crush on someone with a different sexual orientation than you?

How did it work out?
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  • Sort of. I was really attracted to two girls who were Lesbians. One looked like a tom boy, for lack of better terms. They had several tattoos, short hair cut, but I wanted them. They knew I did though.
    The other, was someone I thought was straight, but she was not. Not really a crush but very attractive.

    • I’m guessing they didn’t return your crush?

    • One might have. The other knew but she made it clear she likes women only. Didn't stop me from desiring her. I think she was flattered that I wanted her anyway. I always felt the other liked me, but I never pressed the matter.

    • I met someone on here who I talk to now that I would definitely love a chance with but she lives far away and I don't do long distance. She's also in a relationship. Not a lesbian though.

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  • Yeah, a bisexual girl. I'm a straight man. We ended up dating for eight months. It was great. We checked out girls together, got along real well most of the time. Didn't work out in the end and now she's engaged to a woman she's been in a relationship with for like 6 years now.

    • I understand

Most Helpful Girls

  • I had a crush all through High School on this hot guy... finally found out when we went to sr prom, he was gay... wow...

    he was nice to me as a friend, but no interest in girls!

    • Same 😢

  • Yes, more than once with heterosexuals of both genders and a lesbian girl.

    My most hurtful loss was the straight guy :(

    Have you ever had a crush on someone with a different sexual orientation than you?
    • I’m sorry

    • Thank you, it's ok some things just weren't meant to be. I wrote a myTake about it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yeah, super awkward elevator ride.

    • I bet 😂😂😂

    • I don't get it?

    • @karlajuarez12 I asked her out in the elevator after class. Turned out she's was straight and her "flirting" with me was just how she is. But by that point we were in the elevator together for 4 floors.

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  • yes, had a crush on this guy that was not the stereotype gay in anyway and when I asked if he wanted to do something he politely told me he was gay but liked my friendship. We're still friends because he's a cool guy to be around but also because he handled that situation.

    • Awesome 😊

  • I had a girlfriend for a year, who later on went on to be a lesbian and she married another woman. So perhaps when we were together she was bi? I didn't know about it until many years later.

    • Makes sense

  • Had a gay guy crush on me but we worked it out and we're good now. He's married now to a guy I used to worked with. I tease him that if I was gay, I would have grabbed his husband first!

    • Nice!

  • I had a crush on a gay guy form school didn't know he was gay until we were alone

    • Me too. I totally understand.

  • Not yet... At least not to my knowledge anyway 🤔

  • I've had a crush on a few straight girls 😭😭😭😁😁😁

    • Cool 😁

    • Me too :-)

  • No I haven’t.

  • Nope, bi girls have too many options

  • Yeah... what can i say gay women be perfect. Never crushed on someone to find out there not interested in guys tho. But if i did that would just make me crush more... lol

  • Bruh, like a girl?

    • ...; )

    • Like a bi girl

    • I think you know the answer.

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  • Yes. I have had sex with the too. I have had ex girlfriends that were bi sexual. I have also had sex with a woman that was Queer. then she tried to choke me each time she orgasm'd so i stopped seeing her.

    • Probably a good idea

    • It wasn't my thing. I'm sensual lover.

  • I've had another boy ask me would I consider try dating him before.

  • Yeah. She has a girlfriend now

  • I would date a girl whose Bisexual no problem for me

  • not that i know of

  • If celebrities count, then yes. 😂

  • Yea and i stopped persuing them

    • Cool

  • No, I have not. If I know someone is not interested in men, I leave them alone.

  • Yeah, she was bi and I am straight; we hooked up a few times but she ended up marrying a woman several years later

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