For women interested in men, What sort of 'improvement' would you prefer to see from a current/potential partner?

Answer however you like, and/or choose one poll option below as the most likely to increase your attraction for the guy. If you feel extra helpful, please use the comments to rank order my list of options.
For women interested in men, What sort of improvement would you prefer to see from a current/potential partner?
A. He attains noticably better physical shape / health
Vote A
B. He develops a skill, produces a product, or provides a service
Vote B
C. He quits watching pornography
Vote C
D. He fixes up the car or house
Vote D
E. He plans a vacation, or makes an effort to be more outgoing
Vote E
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Vote F
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That's a cute story. It sounds like you might prefer option B. Develop a skill
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  • None of these really I just want them to improve their skills and furfill their dreams while I watch from afar I love art and I want them to improve at what they are doing they are amazing as it is but they still got some work to do but they are still amazing as it is I only talked to them twice not that I want them to be my pontential partner I don't have confidence for that and I can't talk to people I just end up stalking them. I found out where he is from what he perfers to eat , draw , what he does during class where he goes sort of I didn't get to follow him where he went yet ... I sound like a stalker but I just happened to be around and he wad with my classmates at the time but my other classmate asked me to go with her I befriended her a bit we still aren't quite friends yet and I still have to befriend him... I just talked to him twice and I'm the one who asked for his number and started a conversation but can't quite figure out anything else other than he is a perfectionist he said it himself something like that no wonder why he is so skinny he spend sleepless nights drawing What a hard worker. We are classmates so if you are wondering why I just happened to be there. I applied to be a graphic designer so did he because there was no art school in our country he plans to finish an art univesity and I intend to have a career as a graphic designer but to do art as a hobby. I took and interest in him cause he reminds me of me

    • That's a cute story. It sounds like you might prefer option B because you like watching him perform and develop his skills as an artist

Most Helpful Girl

  • There isn't anything specific that I would want my husband to improve on. I dont really think about him in that way like we all have our faults and not everything needs improvment. Better off just loving him for who he is even all the bad things. If he wants to work on something then I'd definitely support him 100% but im not personally gonna choose the things he needs to work on.

    • Let's just say he did it on his own accord - Do any of the options sound more appealing than the rest?

    • Nah they all seem pretty equal

    • 👍🏼

Most Helpful Guy

  • She wants me to be less sad and much more easy going.

    • You must be sad for a reason. 🤔 Maybe you need to address that.. rather than just ‘be less sad’.

    • @Poppykate for now I'm following therapy with a professional with the addition of writing exercises and such. I have to take vitamins because apparently I had a severe lack of them and this could have worsened my mood. For now I'm doing gradually better, but if it stills won't work, we are keeping meds as a last resort.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I mean, that kind of depends on how he already is when I start dating him.

  • I wish my boyfriend would compromise with me a bit more. He’s an HUGE introvert and I’m an extrovert.
    i want to go out on double dates or hang out with our mutual friends, I want to go to bars/clubbing and he never wants to. I wish he would go even like once every couple months.

    • Thank you for sharing!

  • I would like a guy to open up to me and stop stringing me along.

  • Definitely be more out going. Me personally I'm a very out going person because otherwise it'll just be boring we don't get out so much and do stuff. And definitely also a guy who doesn't watch porn at all.

  • I am a straight man, but I love your question.

    • Glad to hear it